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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: We are told that talking to our kids about things like smoking is the best way to prevent it, but my parents talked to me about it and I started smoking anyways. How can you ensure that you have a positive influence on your kids in these matters?
POST: When I was 14 I started smoking eve... | My parents talked to me about smoking and I chose to smoke anyways, wondering how to better help my children make the right choice not to smoke despite me telling them it's bad for them. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (F35) partner (M54) forgets I exist when life gets hard for him, but I need him right now.
POST: We have been dating for a year, and he is wonderful. However, I have noticed that when his life goes even slightly off-balance he disappears for days. I will text him that I am thinkin... | My partner isolates himself when facing depression, which is normally fine, but I am facing some terrible depression too and want to hold him/be held. How can I express my needs without forgoing his or coming across as needy? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [M 17] I need help with my ex, who I care about a lot [F 15]
POST: Hey guys. I've been a lurker on reddit and I've seen some good advice on this subreddit so I thought I'd give it a try.
Anyways. At the beginning of this year (HS) I met this girl and we got along really well. We bot... | A fantastic 6 month relationship ended 3 months ago, due to extenuating circumstances. I began noticing another girl; girl that I had relationship won't talk to me anymore and I still care about her a lot. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Once when I was really lonely, I hung out and flirted with some gay guys and pretended to be gay, just for fun. What's something you've done that you just can't explain to your friends and family, no matter how harmless?
POST: It all started after I got dumped by my 2nd girlfriend in a ... | I got dumped, wanted some validation, so I hung out with some gay guys and flirted with them all night. It was fun, but I don't think anyone I know would understand if I told them. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24/m] wondering if a woman[22/F] is flirting with me or just in need of attention
POST: I met her (let's call her Susan) only 1 week after she broke up with her boyfriend. Susan has always been extremely nice with me, calling me bear, saying i'm sweet, asking for hugs, etc.
We ... | Girl coming out of a break up is being a bit too friendly with me, and i have no idea what it means since i'm not used to it. Is it flirting or a cry for attention? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (18F) got a guy's number (21M) but when I asked to hang out he said no (for good reason, more explanation inside)
POST: Couldn't think of a better way to word this in the title. We have a class together at Uni and after talking a lot in class, I asked if he wanted to hang out outsi... | I asked a guy out to coffee and he said he couldn't because he has homework. How can I leave the idea of hanging out open ended on his part? (Possibly so he will suggest something) |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [21M] dating a [19F] for 2 months. She started to act weird and distant recently, said she's confused. HELP
POST: Hello everyone. I've been dating this girl for about two months and I liked her very much (still do). From what I understood she liked me very much too (even maybe more).... | Girl which I really clicked with became distant, strange and said she's confused and doesn't want to do a mistake. No contact for six days. Help please? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Prolonged eye contact with a girl I know and talk to. [20M/16F]
POST: Hey guys of reddit,
I was here redirected from r/askWomen.
I am a 20 year-old shy guy, who has not yet had the real relationship lasting over a year or so. Al my previous lasted from 2-6 months and I have real tr... | Is a girl, who copies my speech style (using same words as me only when I am around and none other time) and keeps long eye contact with me (5+ seconds) attracted to me? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Frustrated with BoA and switching to USAA. Need help getting USAA and confused about the CCs. Help!
POST: To give you some background, I decided to change everything over to USAA because I know my Grandpa was in the armed services and I wanted to see how I could access the full c... | What is the simplest and temporary way to get my Grandpa and parents enrolled in USAA so that I can access it and what will happen to my credit cards if I close my BoA account? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [20M] taking a girl [20F] out this evening after coming out of a long term relationship. I have a problem, what should I do?
POST: I recently broke up with my girlfriend of three years. She was my first love and changed my life forever! It's been really tough but the hardest part... | I'm taking a girl out but I'm broke as shit, what should I do/say if she wants to do something which involves money? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: this weekend, it is ten years ago
POST: ten years ago nine young men died during a Pearl Jam concert at the Roskilde Festival. I (together with ~50000 other people) were at the concert. Everything felt like a normal concert. The audience was not behaving differently from any other typica... | I could have been killed at a concert 10 years ago. A terrifying experience from which I seem to have learned nothing. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16 M] with my girlfriend [16 F] 2 years, she had an accident and is now quiet around me.
POST: So, yea let me explain.
Side note:
I'm not grossed out or anything it's natural and sometimes accidents happen.
______________________________________________________________________... | my girlfriend had an accident on me and is quiet around me now. What can I do to reasure her everything is okay. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: After a miscarriage my Wife[30f] admitted to me[28m] she has no sex drive anymore.
POST: I'm 28m and my wife has always been very sexual and had a pretty strong sex drive. We were the kinds of couple that could turn each other on very quickly.
However, last month she fell pregnant u... | Wife[30f] lost sex drive after miscarriage last month. I don't know how I[28m] can help her or what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 F]with my high school friend [24F] (non-tomantic) I no longer want to be her friend but She is suicidal and I don't know how she'll react
POST: I'm on my phone so please excuse my grammar. I met my friend Anna junior year in high school. We were both depressed and into art so ... | Friend from high school is a completely non functional mean adult, keeps saying shes going to kill herself and I no longer want to be her friend |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (M/26) Ex-Gf (F/22) Always Went Back to Her College to Party But I Wasn't Allowed to Come..
POST: About 45 minutes from where I live is my EX-GF's college town, Oxford Ohio. She graduated last summer. Since she graduated she goes back here and there but refuses to bring me along o... | My ex-gf would return to her college town and get black out drunk all the time but refused to invite me to come along. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I get my mother (58f) to stop blaming me?
POST: My parents are divorced. I (29F) haven't spoken to my father in over ten years. I lived with him briefly in high school my freshman and sophomore year after some abuse stuff with my mom.
My father was always manipulative. Wh... | How do I get my mother to understand that I was placed in an impossible position of pleasing two manipulative parents and I was just a teen? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: In a prospectively faltering economy, would you recommend a student study a field where (s)he is probably going to be in high demand, therefore ensuring them a decently paying job in the future, or go into a field they truly feel passionate about, regardless of hardships they may face as ... | angsty rant: How big of a role should the prospective job market play in what field a student decides to study? |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: Itching to work away for a year (Canada? US? NZ?)
POST: Hi all,
in late 2013 I bought an Australian 12 Month WHV and between the time of buying the VISA and leaving for Australia I met a girl...I ended up spending 2 months in Australia and flying over to Canada (where she'd moved to) for a... | Made a dumb decision because of 'love' so want to work away for a year in NZ, Canada or USA...anyone have experience in the processes/anything they'd have done differently. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How to deal with financial pet peeves? 19/f in a relationship with 20/m
POST: So my boyfriend took a year off from school and decided to move in to an apartment next to me. His parents help him out a good bit, but he does largely support himself. He pays his own rent for an apa... | my boyfriend has a lot of expenses but never, ever pays me back when he says he will or gives me back change |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Screwed myself over (with a girl and money). How can I get out of this or move past it?
POST: I'm not going to go into much detail here, so I'm going to try and make this as simple as I can:
Met a girl online, fell for her, she knew I liked her, I was a complete fool, paid nearly $2... | Foolishly paid nearly $200 for a girl to meet up with me, turns out she was a bitch, now I want my money back! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21/F] with my boyfriend [23/M] of 3 years. How to discuss taking a break for academic reasons?
POST: I am about to go into my final semester of uni. I will be at uni 9-6.30 on Tuesdays and Thursdays, working 9-5 on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays and doing some voluntary work/stu... | So my question is this: How can I bring this up with my boyfriend without him thinking there is an ulterior motive? And has anyone else put a relationship on hold for a similar reason? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25M] had a first date with her [23F]. I had a lot of fun, however she lives 7 hours away. How should I proceed?
POST: Basically I matched with this girl on a dating app 2 months ago. She lives in LA, and I live in SF. She comes back to SF once in a while because that's where her ... | Had a great date but she lives so far away. Can this work out and if so how can I go about making this work? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, one of my best friends has recently expressed extreme homophobia and hatred toward gays after the topic of Chick-fil-a came up. How should I get him to calm down the hatred at least in my presence?
POST: I have known this friend since the end of my 8^th grade year (I'm entering 1... | Friend is extremely homophobic, doesn't seem to care if people hear his opinion, want to politely ask him to stop in front of me (at least). |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How should my girlfriend (17,F) and I (19,M) deal with long distance?
POST: My girlfriend and I live in different cities, only about an hour's train ride away, but we're finding things really hard at the moment. We both have a lot on our plates with uni and school work and she's curr... | having trouble keeping things alive with my girlfriend who lives in a different city, we think we're drifting apart but our busy schedules make it difficult to see each other really often. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (23m) have been seeing a girl (22f) for 4 months. Decided to have an open relationship while she was overseas and she slept with someone.
POST: We started dating 5 months ago. We have never been official but were both exclusive while we were dating.
1 month ago she left on a 5 we... | open relationship while girl overseas, she had sex with someone, I can deal with that, but she didn't use a condom. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My family is splitting up and I [18F] am really worried about my mom [55F] who has depression
POST: This might be a dumb question but I would be thankful for your suggestions.
My mom has always been the glue that's held my whole family together (it's her, me, my little sister, and ... | Dad and sister are both moving out at the same time, they keep her company, I don't know if my mom will be ok with them gone. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19M] with my Girlfriend [19F] Finally learned how to get with other girls while in a relationship......
POST: Hello reddit, in order for you to understand where I am coming from here is a very short background of me. I grew up an only child, my parents never got married nor have ... | Grew up with horrible self-esteem, met my first love, went into the Airforce better looking, sex with 9 other women....do I love her but have issues? Or do I not love her at all? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25F] need some help, perspective, and motivation when it comes to dating.
POST: Sorry for the throwaway but I have many friends who are apparently aware of my regular account.
I'm generally an upbeat person but the past few days have been really tough for me.
I've been using o... | What can I do to stay motivated with dating? What are your best dating tips in general? How can I be a more approachable woman? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How to reasonably dispute a repair bill?
POST: Here's the situation: I bought a home recently that has central gas heat. When it started getting cold, we realized we couldn't figure out how to light it. I thought I just didn't know what I was doing, but when I called a local contracto... | I got charged for a part I'm not sure I needed and a diagnosis that was (at least) partially incorrect. Need suggestions for reasonable settlement. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not checking a photo
POST: Obligatory "this wasn't today".
I live in Australia and recently got my L plates. I'm nearly 17 and should have gotten them just under a year ago, so all my friends were giving me shit about it. I finally got them and thought I would post a picture of it, l... | I took a photo of my licence and blurred out the details, posted the wrong picture on Facebook, meaning all my details were there for anyone to take. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24m] girlfriend of 1.5 years [23f] is terrified of getting pregnant and we rarely have sex. Should this be a dealbreaker?
POST: We wear condoms, she's on birth control, and she still asks that I try to pull out. She says things will change if we get married, but I don't want to t... | Rarely have sex with my gf; she says things will change if we get married. Is it normal to be so terrified of getting pregnant? Can I believe her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's the biggest coincidence you've ever experienced?
POST: In the summer before high school began, a girl from my neighborhood who I knew fancied me moved away. I assumed she was gone for a while. Years later, it's the first semester of Junior year. I had gone into what's called a Mi... | Girl from before high school shows up randomly at community college class that both of us happened to apply to and be accepted in a rather exclusive program and take the same class at the same time. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22/m] am extremely uncomfortable with the way my girlfriend [22] acts with her male friends.
POST: We were at a party last night, at her friend's apartment. She considers this guy one of her best friends, though they have only known each other for a couple years or so. They had se... | my girlfriend was all over a close guy friend at a party, the closest contact was neck kissing and playful scratching/tickling, all multiple times. She claims she has no feelings for him but I just feel extremely uncomfortable. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My friend just got a DUI -- What happens now?
POST: This is his first, his court date is in less than two weeks. Basically looking for two things:
**Worst case scenario**
**Best case scenario**
The irony of it is my friends and I just had an intervention for him last week. In just thi... | Friend got his first DUI(.15) and a speeding ticket, what is likely to be the outcome? What can be guaranteed to happen, and what can possibly happen with a good judge? |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: [Vent] Surprisingly upset about trying to schedule a dress shopping appointment
POST: Well, I'm now a little over 10 months away from my wedding date and something finally made me cry, and it was pretty unexpected. I'm about to try and schedule an appointment to go wedding dress sh... | I want my entire bridal party to be there for dress shopping, but there are too many conflicting schedules and I'm irrationally upset about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Redditors, have you ever thought of a genius invention on your own, that later in life you found out made someone else rich?
POST: Hi reddit, I'm 19 and I currently go to Virginia Tech University in the U.S. Ever since I was little i would always come up with inventions in my mind that I... | I came up with an idea to speed up finding spaces in parking garages years ago, never did anything about it and someone else invented it recently. Any of you have similar stories? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Nearing 1 year with my SO, not really going anywhere
POST: To preface: we are both in our late 20's/early 30's.
I like being with my boyfriend a lot. He's really good to me, sweet, we get along really really well. Many things fit really perfectly with us in ways I didn't really thin... | Because of meds and depression, boyfriend of almost a year doesn't feel as strongly about me as I do about him. We also haven't been having sex for the majority of our relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: How to text a girl [16F] I [15M] recently met?
POST: So, at a speech/forensics tournament yesterday, I met this amazing girl.
We talked for a couple of hours, and I got her number. She lives one city over and I don't want to lose contact with her.
I started texting her last night ask... | met a girl, like her, want to keep contact and develop relationship. How do I start a conversation over text?) |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Has Anyone Here Gone Back to School to Learn a Trade After Discovering Their Liberal Arts Degree is Worth Dick in the Working World?
POST: I graduated college in '08 with a bachelor's degree in philosophy. I chose not to pursue graduate school because my grades weren't *that* good and w... | I'm thinking about quitting my minimum wage slavery position and going back to school to learn a trade. Has anyone else here done this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by being charitable.
POST: I was getting ready for work. Put on some old jeans and found a ten dollar bill, sweet, lucky day. On the way to work I put in fuel in the car. I pay 29 cash and get an extra dollar back to go get a peach Optimo (cigar) after getting fuel.
As I'm filling up t... | Gave someone a ten dollar bill thinking it was a dollar. But it turns out she and her kid needed it more than I did. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[20M] and a friend [20F] hooked up but she is in a relationship and I'm conflicted about what to do...
POST: Throwaway for obvious reasons.
So I met this girl through reddit/Facebook a week before I went to a large music festival in Vegas (Electric Daisy Carnival, referred to as E... | I went to a festival and slept with a girl and we both have feelings for each other and don't want it to end but it's long distance and she has a boyfriend. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I [F/26] deal with my ex [M/27] I'm stuck in flat
POST: Disclaimer: I'm writing this as my friend who's not redditor and I wanna help her.
> I was dating this guy for 2.5 and for the last 2 years we live together in flat. The relationship was on decline for the last 9 months... | Ex tries to fix *unfixable* relationship which is stressing me out. We will share flat for next 2 months. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I keep my family's legacy intact?
POST: I've posted previously about what an evil step-mother I have, here is some background before I get to my question:
My dad married a mail order bride (huge age gap) who has slowly driven his children away and kept him sheltered from his life... | If a husband and a wife both have their names on the deed of the house, but the house was bought before the marriage, does the house automatically go to the wife upon the husbands death or does it go through probate? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19/F] can't get over a girl I liked/loved. I find flaws with everyone else...
POST: Around two and a half years ago, I fell for this girl. We'd been at school together for almost six years at the time, and we'd never spoke before this. She randomly started messaging me, and we go... | I was crazy about a girl. We've not spoken in a year. Every other girl who messages me/shows an interest in me, I can't get excited about. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21F] need advice on how to stop being jealous of my boyfriend's [22M] family. (together 2 years)
POST: This may seem stupid, but it's become a big issue in my life. I love my boyfriend very much and our relationship is great.
Last year, my dad died. It has been very traumatic fo... | My dad died and my family is devestated. My boyfriend has a really awesome, tight-knit family and it makes me jealous. I need to stop being so jealous. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's the most recent thing you regret?
POST: I'll start with what I did today.
*Setting: High School Lunch*
I was sitting at lunch with a bunch of my friends and we were all chatting having a good time. I look over a couple tables over and I see this cute girl sitting at an empty tab... | I saw a cute girl sitting by herself doing nothing today at lunch and I passed up the opportunity to talk to her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my Crush [18 F] 1 hour, I'm a newbie and I'm not sure what happened today.
POST: Ok I'll give some background info to start off. I'm a complete newbie when it comes to romantic relationships and girls. I'm a virgin, never kissed a girl, and never even held hands with a... | Spent an hour spontaneously talking with my crush. I don't know what it means or what I should do about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Suffering from Post concussion syndrome, and wondered if anyone else might have some great advice to help recover.
POST: Back in 2006 I suffered a number of head injuries that now resulted in 5 months of memory loss as well as permanent light sensitivity, sound sensitivity and general di... | I hit my head a few years back and the symptoms are back but anyone have any great tips and hints recovering from Post concussion syndrome or any other head injury related tips? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [M25] ex [F28] and I broke up 1.5 years ago, previously together for 3 years. Her sister is dying of cancer and she's contacted me for support. Not sure what to do
POST: Hey there,
The title sums up the situation. We ended our relationship on good terms and on the agreement that ... | ex messages me after 1.5yrs to ask for support with her dying sister, I don't know how to help her or why she's contacting me specifically. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 M] met a girl [21 F] online 2 weeks ago, yesterday she mentioned that another guy didn't like her back. Not sure if i should tell her i'm interested in her.
POST: Hey everyone, this is my first post on Reddit ever. I usually just read, but not this time.
So here's the deal, I... | I met a girl, we talk everyday for 2 weeks, then she tells me she liked some other guy and he didn't like he back. Should i try to go after her or not? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I (f23) really too good for him? (m23)
POST: I'll try to keep it brief.
We've been together for two years. My only problem is that I constantly ask myself if I should break up with him.
Everytime we argue, he tells me I'm too good for him and now I'm starting to believe it's tr... | Not sure what im feeling towards my relationship and boyfriend always tells me im too good for him, starting to believe him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (19F) not sure how often to text people text in a relationship
POST: So I (19F) just began seeing this guy (25M) a couple weeks ago. Everything has been great, but I feel like I annoy him sometimes while we're texting. I know that texting isn't a great way to convey emotion, but ... | I'm afraid I'm annoying this guy by texting him too much! How much do people text in a normal relationship who aren't living together? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [20 M] talk to this girl [19 F] I never really learned how to talk o women
POST: I'm a 20 year old college student whose biggest problem is that I can't talk to women. I mean I can but I can't talk to women I like. I've asked girls on dates twice in my life and got rejected ... | I never really learned how to talk to women. What should I do? How should I go about approaching this girl? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I (M20) doesnt feel enough love from gf (F20)
POST: Okay so, we have been together for 6 months now and I am a very romantic guy. And the thing is, she is either totally different or just doesnt care. For example she never hugs me NEVER kisses me I am always the kissing her and... | My gf doesnt show me love never hugs or kisses me we talked about a few times and nothing changed. What should I do? I dont know if breaking up si right. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: reddit, what should I do about a coworker being inappropriate?
POST: so we hired a new girl at my work, which is a customer service office based work place. I have only been with the company about 8 months, and am technically in a different department than her, but I'm the one the new pe... | annoying new girl told guests about her vajayjay piercing and they told the whole staff, should I tell our boss to talk to her, should I talk to her, or should I let her screw up again? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Fiancee is moving to California for an indefinite period of time, having trouble swallowing it.
POST: I'm 28m, she's 23.
We met about the middle of January of this year, I was going through some weird things and my priorities were out of whack so it was difficult for me to commit.... | Fiancee is moving 2200 miles away and I can't go with. Want to make it work but not quite sure how. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is your opinion on exam-sharing? Do you consider it to be a form of cheating?
POST: What would you do if you found out that your classmates were partaking in it?
At my alma mater, exam-sharing was considered to be cheating, so we weren't allowed to take home our exams after they w... | Some kids in classes are sharing past exams they got from their friends. This pissed me off bc I think it's cheating. I want to know your opinion. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I am looking to make some changes in my life, particularly in the 'employment' category.
POST: OK, here's my situation. I work downtown in a job that pays well. However, I get no sense of satisfaction other than paying off the loans I took out to pay for my education and my car.
What ... | I want a job that makes me feel like I am benefiting the world. What are some options you can think of that would give me interesting and fulfilling experiences? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: How do I deal with harboring romantic feelings for my boss? And have acted upon it.
POST: Some time ago, my boss and I went out for drinks after work (which already is not a professional move). Well, needless to say, we got a bit toasted. I can barely remember what happened, but I have flas... | I have a crush on my boss- we've acted upon those feelings, but stop ourselves. How do I deal with this type of self control? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Mother [45F] putting restrictions on me [16M] if I need medication. Is she right?
POST: Tomorrow morning, I'm seeing getting a med evaluation for mental conditions. Later, I plan on visiting friends and getting work done for school. Brought this up with my mother so she knows what I'... | May be getting prescribed meds. Mother isn't gonna allow me hang out with friends or worry about school stuff much if I do get meds. Is she right? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: GF [19F] wants me [21M] to lose weight. I'm 6'4 and 160 pounds.
POST: I love my GF. She's cute, sweet, funny and kind, and I couldn't ask for anything better. But she has some strange preferences.
When we met, I was poor as fuck and working a physically strenuous job. I would be on ... | I'm a skinny fuck, GF wants me to be even skinnier. I want to be attractive to her, but is this unreasonable? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my wife [26 F] of a year, friendship interfering with marriage.
POST: So we've been married a year, and it's been a good marriage, except my wife's friendship with another is constantly causing emotional distress for both of us.
To provide some background insight, m... | My wife wants to move back to her state to work and commute every weekend back to my state despite lower income potential and less lucrative work opportunities because she wants to be with her best friend. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Have you ever seen an accident that looked fatal, but it turned out everyone was OK? I'll start...
POST: A couple of days ago I was in the car with my mum, and at one point we had to go down a very narrow road next to a small canal. There was a lot of cars going slowly on this road, whic... | horrific-looking crash into a canal turns out to be non-fatal, and hero son says "I'm not a hero". |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, I fucked up. I used up $2,500 dollars over a 3 month course of money that wasn't mine. I have no money. I have no idea what to do. I need $1,000 by tomorrow. Any ideas on how I can make this money by noon tomorrow?
POST: Backstory: My dad retired in April and got about $14,000 fo... | Spent thousands of dollars that weren't mine, now i'm broke and need to give $1,000 to my dad tomorrow or I am without a home. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Gf 24 broke up with me M 25. Not sure what to do.
POST: Gf moved away in September due to a job, we were going to try long distance and both felt that it could work. Unfortunanlty in Sept her mum got real sick and she moved in with GF. This meant GF couldnt ever see me or talk to me ... | Gf moved away in sept, her mom got ill couldnt make the long distance thing work. Dont know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do you deal with Apple?
POST: EDIT: why are you downvoting my post and not commenting with advice. thanks guys.
so my friend bought a macbook pro for christmas and within a month the fan started making terrible noises whenever the computer is on for more than an hour, her and i go to... | bought macbook, broken fan, apple denies its broken, tries charging us for something under warranty, now keyboard is broken. fuck apple what do we do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [M22] with my father [M52] issuing passive aggressive ultimatum threats he doesn't follow up on
POST: I haven't seen my father in 5 years and he invited me and my sister [18] on a vacation in Europe. We're 4 days in and the last 3 days we have had severe arguments that are crippli... | prideful and stubborn father constantly escalates nonproblems, little desire to talk rationally about it and shifts all fault to me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Seems as if girl wants to start again after a failed relationship, or just wants to be friends. [M,16]
POST: Me and her dated for two months and two weeks before it ended I found out I was moving (hence the break up). I was there for 2 more weeks after the break up and we had a... | Seems as if girl is wanting to start dating me again after a failed short relationship, but could just be trying to be friends. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (21M) advice for avoiding emotional attachment to a FWB (20F)?
POST: I hooked up with a friend of a friend at a party last weekend, and I'd really like to keep doing so, but I don't want a relationship from her. I'm very physically attracted to her, but almost not at all personality-... | I want to be fuck buddies with a girl who is *not* my idea of relationship material, but I don't know how to stop myself from developing real feelings |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend's [M23] ex-girlfriend [F22] won't leave him alone?
POST: (Quick background info: My boyfriend is originally from Oregon, but currently attends school with me in California. His ex still lives in Oregon.)
My boyfriend dated my ex for a total of three years, mostly over l... | Long-term ex-girlfriend suddenly regained interest in my boyfriend when we got together, even though she dumped him twice. What is the appropriate way to handle this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: She's leaving? What do I do?
POST: I'm 22, she's 21.
We started ''dating'' about two months ago and it started getting serious.
She's been talking about leaving for England (we live in Sweden) during the Fall of 2016.
Yesterday I asked her if she wanted to ''make it official.''
S... | girl i'm seeing is leaving in about 10 months, do I break it off now or ''enjoy it while it lasts?'' |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I've been ripped off by a website, what should I do?
POST: Hey there. I was browsing deals.woot when I saw an open box playstation 3 120gb for 185 dollars on a website called quirpo. I had been wanting to purchase this for a while and figured that I wouldn't be able to beat that price.... | I got ripped off by a website called QUIRPO.COM, I used a debit card and want the owner of the site to reverse or honor the transaction. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [31m] have been dating my gf [40f] for 2 years and now having second thoughts
POST: So I've been living with my SO for 2 years now, she has an 8 year old son so it's been quite an adjustment for me. It's been great as they've really enriched my life and I love them both, but also ... | 2 years living with GF and her 8 year old son having trouble deciding if i have grass is always greener syndrome or I need to actually move on. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Moving to Melbourne for Family. Job concerns.
POST: A year and a half ago, my parents moved to Australia. They come to visit me here in New Zealand every couple of months and vice versa, but I feel bad being away from them. They're in their 60s, so My biggest fear is that when the inevitabl... | Parents want me to move to Melbourne from NZ. I'm unemployable at the moment with a Media degree. Training myself in Web Development (Full Stack) |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: No idea what's going on
POST: I'm a 17 year old guy and there's this girl who I work with (she's 16) who I've been really starting to like, and our relationship (we're not dating, though) has seemed to have been pretty good up until just about yesterday. Initially when I first met he... | Girl I like and work with loves talking to me with cute and funny conversations when we text or call each other but acted really awkward around me the other day in person, no idea what this means. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23/F] can't bring myself to talk about being raped, and I have to for a MH assessment.
POST: It's an occupational health assessment for a nursing course at university; it's more so they can support you rather than a test you have to pass (although they are making sure you aren't a... | Have to talk about past abuse in order to pass a psychological evaluation, and the thought makes me want the floor to swallow me with shame and fear. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (25m) I feel like she is abusive emotionally and physically. Recently moved in with constant arguing.
POST: Been dating almost a year (23f). recently moved in w/ her and I'm not on the lease, agreed to help pay rent. Almost every day we argue about the non-inportant things. Ex.... | GF almost 1 year 23f. Very demanding and controlling. Constant arguing, physically and verbally abusive. Live together and I want out. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I F[21] am concerned about my boyfriend M[21] continuously trying to talk to his ex, should I be worried, am I overreacting?
POST: We have been together for over a year and he has talked to her behind my back and lied about it. The conversation did not include my existence at all, he... | boyfriend of over a year keeps trying to talk to his ex and never brings up that he's dating me when talking to her. keeps trying to talk to her even though i've told him how uncomfortable it makes me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24M] can't communicate effectively with my gf [22F]
POST: First things first, I'm diagnosed as on the autism spectrum, so interpersonal relationships have an additional sort of barrier because my brain just works differently.
My girlfriend is to my knowledge NT, but also very res... | I get back from international travel, gf is acting strangely, I offer to help and she fights it, won't say if she wants help or wants to be alone |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Need some advice on next step to take. Me [M24], her [F26], first attempt to meet up cancelled.
POST: Here's the situation. I messaged her on POF, interaction went well and got her number. We text back and forth for a few days and I asked what she was doing on the weekend. She says s... | met online, got her number, schedule a meet-and-greet, cancelled for legitimate cause, text next day with no response. What do I say now that will get her interested again? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27M] seeing a girl [27F] for about a month, she reconnected with an ex now what can I do to get her back?
POST: Context: Girl I met earlier in the summer broke it off with an ex before the summer. I met her and we both were really planning to enjoy our summer and just casually se... | seeing a girl for about a month, she reconnects with her ex and says she needs to evaluate what she really wants. What can I do to get her back? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 31f, because of my husband's 42m actions I'm losing my friends and family
POST: We have been married for almost ten years, and have two children together. Over the past few years, my friends and family members have distanced themselves from us, to the point where some will no longer ... | my husband is rude, controlling and inappropriate towards my friends and family and its driving them away. He won't let me spend time with them on my own. I'm miserable and I don't know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: What's better? Do I let a $50 account in collections from 2010 drop off in 2017, or to pay off the account today and have it count as paid (previously in collections) until 2021?
POST: Question is in the title. I've always heard that any account activity on an account will renew th... | Is it better to let accounts in collections fall off after 7 years, or to pay them off and show them as paid? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my GF [24 F] of 8 months, I can't stop having anxiety/Jealousy over her being unfaithful or leaving me, i don't want to ruin everything.
POST: I love my girlfriend and she has made it abundantly she loves me to the end of the world and back. She has been cheated on bef... | I freak out in my head all the time, don't want to be a jealous arse / the woman i love away |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] found out my gf [19F] of 2 years was drinking with another guy alone and lying to me
POST: Little bit about myself, I am a first-year Uni student and unsure about how to handle this situation. This is my first time posting to reddit.
About the beginning of March this year ... | Found out my gf was lying to me and drinking with this guy alone, we are still friends but I am confused on what to do from here. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Badly timed break up - Too late to get it back?
POST: So I'd been seeing a woman for about 2 months and we were laying in bed naked one night. Recently it felt like she'd been cooling on our whole dating thing - so I asked "Do you ever want to just be friends with benefits" and she s... | Broke up with my gf after sex when she was naked because I freaked about her leaving soon. Next day she wanted me to skip super bowl to call it even. Anything I can do to still get her back? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my ex [22 F] were together for three years, I still don't know why we broke up
POST: We were dating for 3 years. We had many fights and problems mainly caused by me (70% me 30% her). I don't even know how we managed to start dating to begin with. but regardless of that... | Dating for 3 years, sex for 2 years on/off. Find out she has new bf, its ok with me. See old photos BAM! Nostalgia, regret and what not. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[32/ M] feel sick and low because My dream partner [33 /F] lives in another city.
POST: Not sure why but I'm using a throwaway.
So a few weeks ago I travelled to another city about 3 hours away for the weekend. I met a girl at a bar and we really hit it off, one of those times when... | Fell head over heels for the most amazing women and am afraid that I won't get to build a relationship with her, because distance |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I message the other woman?? Me (30F) him (32M) married 6 years
POST: I wouldn't be writing this if I wasn't extremely upset and conflicted. I want someone to stop me from doing something stupid!
He left me a week ago after cheating on me. He has been talking to me almost ev... | husband left a week ago and is not answering me, and I wonder if I should email him, and tell his mistress about his dirty secret to scare her off.* |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by eating a piece of pie.
POST: This weekend I decided to treat myself to making a home made cherry pie, the way my mom has ever since I was little. All this week I've been feeling nostalgic for whatever reason, thus leading me to this brilliant Walmart buying fresh cherries and some sug... | I intended on making a home made cherry pie but ended up adding salt instead of sugar, much to my dismay. I also cut my hand trying to open the flour. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28M] with my GF [28F] of 8 months, are in an open relationship, yet I can't stop lying about sleeping with other people, why?
POST: I am really frustrated about my behaviour and would like some opinions. The situation is that my gf of 8 months and me are open and caring about eac... | we are in an open relationship where it is okay to sleep with others if you're honest about it yet I can't stop lying about sleeping with other people |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 27 F with my boyfriend 34M of 6 months caught me cheating on him but I can explain.
POST: I cant get the line spacing correct my apologizes
We were watching foot ball when I received an Imessage text on my Ipad from a guy named bob. There has been some history with bob and I and... | Cheated on my boyfriend however I have Bipolar and stopped taking my medication and had an episode ( boyfriend doesn't know about the bipolar) |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M/18] think my girlfriend [F/17] is aggressively fan girling and I quite frankly don't know what to do--
POST: Hello Reddit and a quick brief-- I [M/18] recently got into a relationship [F/17] about three months ago so I understand of the following: things can go south very abrupt... | My girlfriend is aggressively fan girling about Supernatural and I currently feel unimportant all of a sudden-- should I wait for her to finish or mention it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [25/m] Confused on how to help a friend (24/f)
POST: So. I've recently developed a friendship with a co-worker. She has a boyfriend (33), who is the father of her son (2 years old). She is home with the child while the Boyfriend is at work, and works limited hours around his wo... | Friend has controlling dick Bf. Doesn't see a decent way out. How do I best help without making things worse? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with girl that I'm dating [21F] for 2 weeks, says that she's gonna hang out with a friend she hasn't seen for 6 months.
POST: So this girl i'm dating for about 2 weeks, tells me she's gonna hang out with a friend that she hasn't seen for 6 months.
She tells me she doesn't... | Girl i'm just dating for 2 weeks, tells me she's going to hang out with a guy that has a girlfriend. Should I be worried? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (27m) like her (23f) but I've never had a major relationship before. Help me decide this now so I can either try before its too late or stick with being friends.
POST: I've just recently began spending time with someone I've known since I was in middle school and her mom was my tea... | I like a girl I just started spending time with, but have known for years. I haven't had a girlfriend despite my age and dating. Should I go for it or not? |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: Summer Holiday for 5 guys after finishing school. Any ideas?
POST: Ok, so basically. Being from Ireland, I'm not too climatised to warm weather and would like to experience this. So for finishing school, a few of us are planning to go on a holiday together to get all the satress of exams ra... | 5 guys want to go somewhere warm after school, not too full of people but with enough nightlife. Budget around 500. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [23f] My Boyfriend [23m] Broke Up with me Because I'm "Abusive"?
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and this morning he broke up with me, he claims that I'm abusive and stuff, when I have never in my right mind laid a finger on him. When I'm drinking I som... | My boyfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me for hitting him while I was drunk. I want to stay together. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (22M) girlfriend (20F) is an ex prostitute...
POST: Hey.
This is very hard to talk about but I need to vent. Two days ago, my girlfriend from 6 months told me the bomb truth. She has been a prostitute since her 15 years old and so for 4 years.
Context. Her parents were abusive a... | GF was a prostitute because no choice and now has doubt about all the men, even me. I want to reassure her and to live happily with her but I don't know how to. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: I'm 12 months away from being blacklisted by my employer
POST: Apologies in advance for any formatting/factual flaws - serial lurker here.
Reposting from another sub because this overlaps several topics - hope I haven't broken etiquette.
**Situation**: I've been accepted into a full time ... | Here's me being a greedy motherfker: take an all-expenses paid school trip, return to toxic workplace for 6-12 months, find a happy job and peace the fuck out. |