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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Should I pay off my home mortgage?
POST: Hi /r/personalfinance,
My wife and I are relatively new parents with a healthy 6 month old. We bought a house (~160k) back in Dec 2013. This is the only debt we carry currently (Both cars are paid off and we do not carry CC debt) The home... | Should I pay off my 122k home and wipe out my savings in an effort to save more money and not pay mortgage interest? What other things should I consider? This is the only debt we carry. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Manager gives me wrong schedule twice in one week, i end up missing precious hours because of it and reprimanded. Who is to blame?
POST: So, here is the dilemma ive been placed in, this past sunday i was given my work schedule for the week, three days thu(noon to close) sat(noon to close... | manager fucks my schedule up twice causing me to be written up, miss a full day of work, and ultimately fucks my finances. who is to blame? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [20M] in the wake of a relationship with a lot going on.
POST: Hey all, so within the last month, my now ex girlfriend cheated on me with another guy, destroyed some of my property, and badmouthed me to every friend she has.
The day after our breakup, I see this girl on campus (I'm... | Ex cheated and fucked me over within a few weeks, head over heels for this girl I've had a major crush on for a year, now we're finally hanging out and I'm generally unsure. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: When have you taken the high road? How do you get over being angry, even though you did the right thing?
POST: Had an employee who was just the worst. He constantly complained and over exaggerated the "hardships" he was going through. As the employer in a non-profit, we can't just fire h... | asshole with self entitlement complex quit and is bad mouthing a charitable organization, and we can't defend ourselves because we're supposed to be the professional ones. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I think I'm being stalked and don't know what to do.
POST: About 7 months ago I got a weird voicemail from a former college classmate of mine, just telling me to call her back. A little over 3 months ago I started receiving facebook messages from her. This girl was in one of my classes i... | Girl is sending me and my friends a ton of messages on the internet. I had one class with her in 2006, minimal interactions, and no one else knows her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: I would like to hear your thoughts on my situation.
POST: I would like to buy a house next year. So right now I am trying to rebuild my credit and learn to budget. My wife and I both come from families who are thousands of dollars in dept. Personally I have about $5,000 dollars in ... | Advice building credit to buy a house. We have dept, but not enough to file bankruptcy. We do have enough that it is ruining our credit. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs
TITLE: Weird illness I have?
POST: So I have been feeling weird but I am unsure of what illness this is. Here are some of my symptoms Day 1 (friday): Difficulty walking (wobbled a lot), head would hurt (even felt like a heart pound sometimes) if I did rapid eye movement/exposed to too much stimul... | knees weak, arms are heavy, seriously don't want to see a doctor at such a busy time at work, shivering when its warm, skin is overly sensitive, head is a big derp, had difficulty walking straight before |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it normal to lose interest after only one month of a relationship? (both 22/M)
POST: Here's the story: In the beginning of January, I met a guy on OKCupid whom I later met in person. Within a couple weeks, we decided to consider ourselves "boyfriends," and we've been together now... | should I be falling head over heels with someone at this point early in this new relationship? Should I just give it more time, or is this a trouble sign? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [25M] girlfriend [24F] of half a year sees a guy who she used to sleep with a lot; I trust her but a friend has made me think I'm being naive.
POST: I'll set the scene. My girlfriend is Cindy and the guy in question is Barry. We have been dating for 8 months, she was sleeping with... | I trust girlfriend, but she has essentially created the perfect situation by which she can just repeatedly cheat on me and I'll never know. |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: I know you'll never see this...
POST: ...but I just needed to finally get this off of my chest. I don't care about who see this, who reads this, or if anyone has anything to say about it. We met in elementary school and from the day I met you I have been in love with you. But because I was... | in love with a friend for most of our lives; watch her jump from bad relationship to bad relationship and continues to be there for her regardless of the situation. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] with my boyfriend [27M] 3 years. He doesn't clean up or tidy and it's starting to disgust me.
POST: My boyfriend does not clean or tidy the house. Sure, he will do the dishes if I ask but other than that nothing. There's bits of chips, poppadoms, pakora on the floor and the ... | Flat is a mess with food on the floor. Bf won't ever tidy up and says it's my fault despite none of it being my mess. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23M] saw archived sexts to a different guy from my [22F] partner from when we weren't dating and can't stop thinking about it
POST: Her and I started dating last year and mutually ended things when I wanted time to get my act together (I was a drug user and drank too much). We go... | learned about dirty texts sent to my girlfriend during a break in our relationship that she doesn't want to delete and it's messing with my head. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My cousin has Lyme Disease but her insurance company won't recognize it and refuses to cover her. What can we do?
POST: I figure I would post a question here before I started researching since this subreddit always has people willing to help out and give advice.
My cousin (25) has had a... | My cousin was recently diagnosed with Chronic Lyme Disease but her insurance company doesn't recognize it as an actual sickness and won't cover treatment. Is there anything I can do to help her out? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16 M] with my BestFriend [16 F] She said she doesn't see me as more than friends but I can't get over it
POST: So I told my best friend I had feelings for her and she said she didn't see me as more than a friend but she said she was going to think about things. She said that she ... | Told my best friend I had feelings she said she didn't see me that way and would think about it but said we might be casual FWB in the future. She also gets very jealous of me and other girls. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Starting to look at one of my best friends in a different way.
POST: I F[21] have been really good friends with someone M[22] for about 6 years now and have never thougt of him as anything more than just one of my best friends, until just recently.
We have tons of fun together and ... | starting to think about a close friend of mine in a different way but the romantic part of things is hard for me to think about. Was wondering if anyone has gone through the same situation and how it happened for them. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26F] found out that my boyfriend [26M] of 6 years cheated on me. Confused as to why he stayed
POST: Like the title says, about a month ago I found out that my boyfriend of 6 years had been cheating on me for over a year. We met in college and after we graduated moved to different ... | My boyfriend of 6 years cheated on me for over a year. She wanted to be with him so what was the point in keeping me around? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, i need your help fast. My long time girlfriend is convinced I cheated on her and is threatening to leave me. What can I do?
POST: Here's what happened. In the early summer I was at a kickback with some close friends. I was sleeping on the couch when my ex-girlfriend who was there... | My ex tried to make a move on me, I didn't let her. Told my girlfriend about it, she messaged my ex, ex says I did. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] was dumped by my [18 F] girlfriend (of almost 4 years) 4 week ago. I feel like everyday I'm breaking more and more
POST: It's been 4 weeks sine we broke up, but I still can't believe everything is done.
My girlfriend broke up with me 4 weeks ago today to date my now ex-bes... | She broke up with me 4 weeks ago and I don't know how to cope anymore. I feel like everyday I break more and more, and that I'm just going through the motions. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by testing my piss (NSFW)
POST: So I had a pretty bad case of kidney stones, they were extremely painful, I passed out and my roommate sent me to the hospital, there a nurse asked me for a urine sample, I couldn't provide it for her, it was pretty awkward.
About 2 hours later I suddenly ... | kidney stones, sent to hospital, piss sampling, pain while pissing, cover myself in piss, nurse responds to my call for help. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm [21,m] in an unhappy relationship with bf [41/m], why do I have such a hard time ending it?
POST: Let me start off by saying that I am fully aware how irrational I have am being.
I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 months, I ignored many red flags in the beginning becaus... | I am unhappy, I know I need to break up, but I can't bring myself to do it.. Any ideas why/how to overcome this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27M] have a huge crush on my coworker [27F]
POST: This is bad. My infatuation with her has become so bad that it's affecting my work. Yes, I know. I'm too old to be like this.
Slight background, I am obviously horrible at dealing with things like this/girls. I'm 27 and have o... | Crushing on coworker, don't think she likes me, don't know what to do now. Talking to her while she ignores my crush aggravates me, and ignoring her makes me feel like an ass. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21F] boyfriend [20M] and only other friend [20M] left me on the same day and I need help coping.
POST: Throwaway because they use reddit.
My boyfriend broke up with me last night. I know our relationship had a rocky past, mostly because of my metal illness on my part, but things... | My boyfriend left me and my only other friend abruptly stopped talking to me the other day. Feeling crushed and alone and need advice on how to cope. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Contacting half brothers?
POST: So a little back story here, my father got my mom pregnant a little bit after he got married with his now wife while the 2 of them were working together at the beach. He didn't want to leave his new wife for my mom and she ended up raising me by herself, I sa... | Father bangs mother while married to another woman, I'm born. Father has 2 other kids close to my age. They probably don't know I exist. Contact them or not?*** |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Should I tell my dad my step mom plans to divorce him by the end of summer?
POST: A little background info: I'm 18 years old, still living with my dad and step mom and about to start my freshman year of college. My dad has been married to my step mom for like 4 years and dated for 4 or 5... | Step mom told me she plans to divorce my dad by end of summer, I promised I wouldnt tell ANYONE what we talk about. Should I tell my dad or just keep it to myself? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my Girlfriend [22 F] 14mo, having problems with jealousy
POST: A little background, my gf is finished school and is working a 9-5 job, I'm still in school with 5 semesters left. I'm in an extremely demanding program with labs and tutorials, lots of group work and worki... | I see a friend at school more than I do my gf which creates a great deal of jealousy. Gf has asked me to stop seeing this friend outside of the classroom. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Down 28kg (60lbs) and not stopping. Could it become a problem?
POST: Hi everyone!
First of all: thank you very much! You guys inspired me to lose weight and i've been doing great so far! You're the best motivation i could ever get.
I started back in December 2011. I had 107kg (235lbs) an... | I'm losing weight to fast and I don't know how to stop it. I'm eating 1200kcals/day. Should I do less sport? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my girlfriend [23 F] of almost 5 years, knowing when you've broken a relationship beyond repair.
POST: As of only 10 days ago, I broke the news that I wasn't graduating on time because I had dropped classes due to financial/time restraints. Being the prideful and stubb... | I fucked up my loving, long-term relationship through lying (no infidelity). How long do I try and fix it before determining whether it can even be fixed? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [22F] & I [21M] - Are we too attached to each other? Going on vacation and it'll be the longest we don't see each other.
POST: We've been together for ~3 years typically see each other at least 4 times a week and we love seeing each other. Inseparable if you will. We'd see each other... | Usually see s.o. most days of the week, going on vacation and won't be seeing her for the longest stretch since we've been dating. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Didnt plan my SO's birthday and now we arent on speaking terms.
POST: So last night was my SO of two years [m] birthday, and currently we are in another city for school business this entire week. He gets off at 5 PM everyday so I was researching stuff to do when he got off. Pro... | Planned my boyfriends birthday too vague and now hes miserable and so am I. He never seemed too into birthdays but money problems on my side have prevented me from having clear plans. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Anybody here knows how to negotiate NJCLASS loans?
POST: Mine went into default and I've been told they are one of the worst lenders to deal with. I just found out they are private loans - I thought they were federal. When I applied for that loan, my impression was that it's some k... | SO, 15K DEFAULTED NJCLASS DEBT; BACK IN SCHOOL FULL-TIME; NO EXPECTED INCOME UNTIL DECEMBER 2014-JANUARY 2015. WHAT TO DO? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26F] feel like I am losing attraction to my boyfriend [25M] due to intellectual differences.
POST: My boyfriend [25M] and I [26F] have been dating for a little over two years and it's mostly been great. We started out as great friends which morphed into dating, and we have a lot o... | I feel like intellectual differences are making me less attracted to my boyfriend. I'm not sure if it's just a phase. Has anyone been through something similar? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25M] started dating [23F] 3 weeks ago, but she is moving in a month if she gets this job, what do I do?
POST: So like I said we've been together for about 3 weeks now. It doesn't seem like a summer fling/fuck buddy type of thing. We are actually really good for each other and seem... | Do I try to have an 'us' talk with the girl I've been seeing that is looking for jobs out of state for this fall? |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: That is my car.
POST: So when I was younger, maybe 3-4 years old, I had one of these bad boys:
My cousins came over, they are a bit challenged but they have full conscience to what they do and their behavior is not altered because of it, there's three of them. I forget the oldest on... | kids kicked me out of my badass-mobile , I pushed two kids over while they were in it , their family got pissed off and my family told them to fuck off |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: i'm tired of people telling me it's for the best
POST: i'm a 20m. she's a 20f. she's in school an hour and a half away. not the problem. we broke up three weeks ago after almost three years because it's both of our first relationships and she doesn't feel as sure of herself as i do. she's... | i fucking hate how i feel and i don't get how i'm supposed to move on. she makes it look easy. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I think some of my co-workers are getting screwed over. Reddit, what can I do?
POST: First off, I am in Ontario, so the relevant labour laws are those of Canada and Ontario.
Here's the situation: I work in a retail store as a part-time junior manager. Myself and all of the part-time emp... | Full-time employees at my retail job are getting screwed out of overtime and I want to help them. What can I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey Reddit... Is there anyone out there who knows how to get a free queen or full size mattress set?
POST: My money has been quite saturated with the amount of bills I have.
Backstory (no pun intended): I had been involved in several accidents from my 18-21 years of age. I just had ... | Poor, skillful college guy, who seeks mattress set. Willing to exchange services like websites and stuff for good new mattress set. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Want to adopt a dog? Nope! You're not good enough!
POST: I currently have two dogs that I purchased in the past from reputable breeders. After watching countless depressing tv commercials with the Sara McLaughlin songs, I promised myself that if I were to add another canine into the fami... | The requirements to adopt a dog are ridiculous, my hands are tied so i just want to buy from an AKC breeder. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: The Effectiveness of Approaching HR Directly
POST: I've been hearing nothing but negatives about the hiring process -- jobs are posted for positions the managers have already decided on; listed positions are always either entry level or require 5+ years of experience. These stories are all ov... | are there any success stories about cold-mailing your resume in the hopes there's a demand for someone with just such a major? Any horror stories? Is this a pipe dream? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M/F] with my gf [25 M/F] of 4 years, she's adamant about not ever having kids, I do. Should I end it?
POST: I've been with my gf for over 4 years. She's always been a somewhat anti-traditional girl, doesn't want to be arm candy, wants to be her own independent woman, hates the... | Girlfriend of 4 years says she never wants kids. I do. Break it off or stick with it and hope things change? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[24/F] with my bf [21/M] 3,5 years, Is he unreasonable?
POST: Last night we had a fight. It was after we worked all day for 11 hours in different restaurants. My colleagues decided to eat out after work, so I called my bf if he want to come too. He said: 'yes, but i'm with the car'... | bf got mad and broke up with me, after I was angry of the way he "asks"/command me things. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [21/m] very attracted to another woman
POST: hey reddit, this is my first post after reading for many months, so please excuse me, if I'll do something wrong here.
I have a serious problem. I've been in a relationship with my gf for almost 3 years. I had to move to another coun... | I am in a ld-relationship and kinda fell in love with another girl (who is in a ld-relationship herself). What to do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Rather than something along the lines of a "Repetition Rule", how about "NO LOW CONTENT POSTS"?
POST: Most of us honestly don't give a shit if you broke 15:00 for 5k or if you just ran your first mile in your lifetime. We are seeing a lot of upvotes on posts like this and at least its unde... | If you are going to brag about your accomplishments or talk about your most recent injury, at least give us a solid background in the lead up to your injury or accomplishment. |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: DAE have this problem with their weight loss journey?
POST: A bit of background... I'm a 31/F, made changes in March 2011 (at around 200lbs, 5'5") to better my life. Lifestyle changes, diet changes, quit my job to go to school. Everything is fabulous and going well. Since then, I have lo... | Have lost 40lbs. Someone complimented me on my progress, and I suddenly lost my motivation to continue. What do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29F] with my [30/m] husband of 11 yrs debate on leg/face shaving for sex
POST: Been married 11.5 years. We have three kids, a new baby of 5 months with health problems. I am adjusting to cycle on mirena so sexy fun time doesn't happen very often. I am in the mood and have the ene... | I think it's ok for my legs to not be shaved, but I want his face shaved. He says if my legs aren't shaved he shouldn't have to shave his face. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 F] with my boyfriend [27 M] of over a year, boyfriend lied about watching porn every day while I'm at work, not sure how to feel/do, and wondering if he's a porn addict.
POST: Throwaway account for obvious reasons.
Okay so my boyfriend [27 M] and I [26 F] met a while back (ov... | BF [27 M] and I already have tons of sex, offered to do special things for him, doesn't seem interested, but still watches tons of weird porn and wondering if he could be a porn addict. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I work at Best Buy and I am bullied by management for giving low scores on the Employee Satisfaction Survey. What is the smartest way to handle this situation?
POST: Someone told my store manager that I gave all 1's on the survey(the lowest score). This is not true, at all. Even if it we... | Management is bullying me because my store got the lowest score on the employee survey and they chose me as a scapegoat based on a lie. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Cheater (F,24) I know, I'm terrible. But advice is needed
POST: So my relationship has been very rocky the past few months due to drug issues on my SO's part. We're in our 20's and have been together for 3 years. We go through intense periods of withdrawal and end up sleeping in diff... | I cheated on my SO last night. Should I apologize to the guy I cheated with? He didn't know I had a SO and I've probably made things very weird for him. |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Getting a bad rap from someone I never worked for?
POST: So I spent two years as an all-star digital producer for an awful company. I killed it as far as numbers goes and my portfolio looks incredible as a result.
The last 2 months of the job changed everything, they laid lots of people off... | Guy replaces my boss two weeks before my last day, after I leave he bad mouths me, throws me under a bus, and tells other employers not to hire me. What can I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: How do I respond to awkward questions?
POST: Hey Weddit.
So, I'm[27F] not getting hitched, but my younger brother[23M] recently proposed to his super lovely girlfriend, now fiance. And it's incredibly exciting, and I adore his significant other, and I knew it was coming and couldn... | Many people I know are asking if I'm jealous of my younger brother's wedding plans. I am nothing but excited for him. How do I make it stop? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me(20'sf) ex(30m) Been broken up for several months. He moves on fairly quickly. How do I move on? Maybe a big move, new state,new job? With what I do I'm able to move anywhere really,in the US that is.
POST: It was a very nasty break up over a big misunderstanding. He's made it clea... | Not making much sense over a break up but really could use some insight and help. Any advice or suggestions? What about making a big move to a new state and a new job? Good idea? Bad idea? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 22 [f] still guilty about indiscretions on bf [23] about three years ago.
POST: My bf and I have been together for about five years, when we first started at the same college together. We're very in love and things are great. However, about three years ago, I went through I guess wha... | Went through a period three years ago where I'd black out and find out I had messed around with other people, still guilty about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Am I[f/35] too old for this? [m/35]
POST: My story: F[35] in a relationship with current bf[m/35] for over a year. We love each other dearly. He gave me a promise ring, he tells me he loves me all the time, I feel the same about him.
Now, I've been around for some time and hav... | I am afraid my bf is not telling himself and me the truth about the nature of his relationship with his ex. What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My SO [21F] blows up over the tiniest things and I'm [21M] trying to find the missing puzzle piece or what I need to change in myself.
POST: Just a little backstory to my relationship. We are both 21 years old and I just got out of the military and she was living with her ex. We have... | Constantly fighting with my girlfriend, who I love dearly, over the tiniest things and I'm just trying to save a little face. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24F] girlfriend isn't that affectionate with me [22M], How do deal with this situation?
POST: I met my current girlfriend 4 months ago and we've been dating ever since. The first few times we kissed were nothing more than a few kisses goodnight. When we started making out more I ... | My girlfriend isn't too affectionate, I believe this is due to her lack of experience with relationships. How do I remedy this issue? |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: How can I (M/20) make my girlfriend (F/18) feel comfortable during her first time having sex?
POST: I want to start off with a bit of background. I've had sex in the past with a few girls I've dated and only one of them was actually a virgin. I feel like I legitimately messed up bec... | How can baby and I's 1st annual sexytime lovefest 2k15 be a great event for the whole gang? (I didn't want to repeat the title in here) |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My mom smokes, I worry about her every day, what can I do?
POST: Hi Reddit.
My mom is a moderate smoker (pack every couple days or so) and doesn't eat the healthiest. She's in her early 50s.
My father died of cancer a couple years ago, and I now worry about my mom almost every day. ... | Mom smokes, I worry about her, is there anything I can do that's not too obnoxious to get her to reduce or quit? |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Recourse from firing a contractor [KY]?
POST: Hey /r/legaladvice;
I'm hoping I can get some information that may ease my mind. We hired a local contractor to redo our bathroom a month ago--he came well recommended from family. Prior to any work being completed we had issues for schedu... | 1) Didn't get a contract to have a family-recommended contractor to come in a do work for me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [Serious]Friend (f/30ish) witnessed 2 incidents of possible sex abuse by current husband towards their 2 y.o. daughter. What should she do? (Ontario,Canada)
POST: So I'm not sure if this is the right place to post as this is my first time posting, but I'm hoping someone can poi... | Fnd (f) saw signs of husband's sexual interest in daughter, unsure of incidents herself, preventing alone time with husband best she can. Unsure what to do next. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Do I really need to make my new US Passport card wear the little tinfoil hat it came with?
POST: My new Passport card came with its own little tinfoil hat (envelope) to wear in my wallet. Do I actually need to keep it in that thing? I realize that it can be read from a scanner but what... | Is the foil lined envelope really needed or is that just something they put in to shut up the tin-foil hat crowd screaming about the RFID in the US Passport? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Rashes from Clothing Dye?
POST: A few weeks ago, I wore a new pair of dark blue wash jeggings. I also work a new wool sweater (no undershirt). I became incredibly itchy that day. I thought it was because of the sweater. Later that night, I realized that the dye from my jeans wore off... | Wore dark jeans and dye wore off on my legs. Two weeks later and I've gotten rashes all over my body. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My GF[28/F] of 2 months told me [33/M] that she has been tracking her ovulation. Advice?
POST: Quick background. I am divorced with full custody of my 4 kids. She has never been married and has no children.
Okay, this is the problem, I do like her. We've had sex 3 times. It had both... | GF of 2 months is tracking ovulation. Is she trying to trap me with a kid? Or am i over reacting? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 F] with my boyfriend [24 M] of 2.5 years, I feel like an insensitive jerk towards him
POST: My boyfriend Alex and I have been dating for 2.5 years, living together 1.5 years. We've been best friends since our junior year of high school.
I have a tendency to be really sarcasti... | My sense of humor is that of a critical asshole, made boyfriend cry with it, need to know how to stop speaking like a critical asshole. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [22 M] ex [23 F] contacted me just now and I'm on the verge of an anxiety attack.
POST: Her and I have known each other for about 3 years, and we dated from November of last year to this past May. Our break-up was fairly tame, she dumped me because she was worried things could end... | Ex who dumped me said she wants to "meet-up and straighten some things out" but I don't think there's anything for us to discuss. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I cheated. In mad lust with the cheatee, but in love with my boyfriend.
POST: I cheated on my boyfriend while I was drunk. I know, I'm a horrible person for that, but anyways. The sex was incredible. The way him and i seemed to be intertwined was amazing. He held my hands and h... | I cheated on my boyfriend, experience was amazing. Still love my boyfriend, but I am very much lusting after the other guy. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (25f) am thinking about moving to another state but am terrified of leaving my tight knit family
POST: I have a huge immediate family. There are 19 of us which includes grandma, parents, 4 sisters, 4 bro-in-laws, 5 nieces and 2 nephews. We have dinner together every Sunday and have... | I'm extremely close with my family but want to move out of state. I'm scared I will lose the bond I have with them. Is it a bad idea? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what are some of your "better than expected" stories?
POST: So. My story pretty much starts out like any other nice guys problem.
I just started my freshman year of college last year, and in my first class there was this girl whom, I wasn't necessarily attracted to, but made fr... | made friends with girl, basically lived with her for a quarter, friendzoned, helped me get over being awkward. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Im unsure of what I (19M) really want with my best friend(18F) and her new college best friend (18F)
POST: So me (19M) and one of my best friends(18F) who we will call M, are both going to the same college. She lives in the dorms but I got into an apartment.
While she's been at the... | im "talking" to a great friends new best friends but as I progress with her, my feelings for my best friend keep getting stronger. What should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Credit cards with rewards programs
POST: I've long been one of those people with the self-control to pay off my credit cards every month, thereby using them like debit cards in order to reap the rewards.
I have these cards:
* Amazon Visa: 3 pts/$1 (3%) back on Amazon purchases, 2... | BP Visa is changing its rewards program, rendering it worthless. What rewards cards are out there that are apt to replace it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I don't know what to do next.
POST: Hi,
I'm a 17 years old boy. Everything goes well. I'm finishing high school richt now (exams). And I have a girlfriend for more than two years now. She has a lot of stress because of the exams, i know it is exhausting but the way she is behaving is n... | Girlfriend is behaving very careless, uninterested and thoughtless. She says it's not her fault and it happens autmatically. What should i do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 F] with my [28 M] boyfriend of 6 years: he is threatening to tell my friends and family details about my previous job in the sex industry.
POST: Background on sex industry job: I informed him of the job when I began it and he was supportive, however, as I continued working it ... | Tried to break-up with live-in boyfriend, he is threatening to tell my family and friends about a sex-industry job I have had in the past, and I don't know where to go from here. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: 8 yo son suddenly VERY curious about female anatomy.
POST: My son was out of town visiting my mother for a few days and she texted me that she caught him googling "girls pee pee" (We all have the normal safeguards on our computers and we scrutinize our kids online activity). My mom handl... | My 8 yo was googling about the female anatomy and after a Q&A, he is even more curious. What's a parent to do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Dear reddit, my mom and dad are deeply conflicted. I don't know who to ask for help anymore. Can anyone guide me through this?
POST: Hello redditors,
I like to think that my family's perfect, but since I've been gone to college, my family's been slowly coming apart. My dad seems to be a... | I hate to add this and I hope you read the whole thing, but my dad isn't loving my mom enough. I don't want her to suffer anymore. I'm getting desperate for help. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Change to a different University Advice, Please help.
POST: Hey fellow members of reddit. I am currently attending Louisiana State University and can't stand it. I dslike most things about the place, but the largest problem is that I have to commute approximately 1.5-2.0 hours every day mon... | want to transfer universities because I am very unhappy in my current location/situation and it has caused my grades to drop horrendously; I need advice big time. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Should I actually be angry with my Secret Santa?
POST: My Secret-Santa sent me the awsomeness of Bacon and Bamboo soap. Not being sarcastic I love both of them and will be getting bamboo again.
Truly both have garnered me compliments (women like the bamboo!) and actually I was happy to ... | Discuss; is my history so much of a stone walling that I don't need to create a throw away when I finally post nudie pics or was my giftee useless and trying to garner shit from it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Bf an I [31m, 26f] can't divide up our chores without feeling like the other is not contributing enough.
POST: We have been together for 2 1/2 years, living together for 1 year. I work from home and have a very flexible schedule, so it makes the most sense that I would do most of the... | I can't figure out how to organize our chores so that neither of us feels like we are getting the bad end of a deal. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [18M] went on vacation with a family friend [18F] and I developed feelings for and now need advice for my next step.
POST: So last week I went on a week long cruise with my family and another family that my parents have known for a while. They have a daughter of the same age,... | Went on a vacation with a family friend who lives far away and, developed feelings for her. Not sure if it would be smart or not to tell her how I feel about her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28M] with my date [24F], we slept together but I'm not sure how she feels.
POST: I've recently started talking to this girl and we install had a really great connection. We talked a lot over text and soon enough a date was planned.
After the first date we plan a second date very... | slept with date, asked how she felt about me, she tells me she wants to get to know me better and we'll have another date soon (date been planned) |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (21f) boyfriend (22m) and I hardly have sex anymore.
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for two years, living together for one. I feel so loved and so appreciated in this relationship it's ridiculous. He makes me feel amazing and I try my best to make him feel the same wa... | Bf and I hardly ever have sex, when we do its exactly the same. Being rejected all the time is effecting my self esteem. Had countless conversations, what else can I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How to I [19M] ask my friend [19F] to pay me for my work?
POST: My friend commissioned me to draw something for her that was pretty involved, and now owes me £35. I am an aspiring concept artist/graphic artist and this was my very first proper commission, so I didn't really know how ... | Did a comission for my friend, sent her an invoice, and a reminder, and she still hasn't paid me after 2 weeks. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: When the lines between trying to figure it out/taking a break/calling it quits, blur? Myself (M27) and my wife (F32)
POST: Our relationship was far from traditional at the start, and it mostly followed that course to present (7 years).
We have 3 kids (2 biological, 1 stepdaughter) ... | my wife and I have a rocky relationship at best, peppered with good strides. Anytime life hits a curve ball forward us, we no longer function as partners but adversaries. When do you toss the towel in? |
SUBREDDIT: r/college
TITLE: Friend took the the SAT for another person, should I tell his parents?
POST: This is the story. My friend K knows W. W and K both have similar last names so were placed in the same SAT classroom. K and W both received their respective scantrons when entering the room, but then surreptitiou... | friend took sat for another friend so second friend will get good score. should i tell both to cancel their scores because i am scared they will both get in trouble?* |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: I think I'm turning into a stalker
POST: I dated a girl for 6 months. She ended it 3 months ago. We work in the same company and share many social circles. She proposed we stay friends, which we have to an extent (grabbing lunch at work on occasion, short text conversations every we... | Dated a girl for a short period, 3 months later I'm still fixated and afraid my fixation is just getting worse as time progresses. Not sure how to proceed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Should I call her?
POST: Hi Reddit, throwaway account here.
So, last year some of my highschool friends invited me to their small gathering/party at a (female) friend's house. I wasn't drinking at first but when they noticed they got me drunk. Briefly after this, my friend's best friend... | Banged a girl in the bathroom at a party last year, didn't really talked over the year. She's a friend's best friend. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By relapsing on Chewing Tobacco
POST: Im back home for break and havent thrown a lipper in about a month a half, but I was out drinking with friends and bought a tin. Today after a nice christmas dinner I went to bed put on Netflix and decided to pack a lip, about a minute later my mom w... | relapsed on chew, mom showed up and I had to swalow the chewing tobacco spit, Lots of puke, MERRY CHRISTMAS. also im quitting, again..... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I don't know how to deal with my (23f) manipulative ex boyfriend(23m)
POST: to make a long story short my ex keeps talking to me and is convinced that were still together after 6+ months of trying to explain that I don't want to be together anymore..
I haven't seen him but he still ... | I think my ex is finally becoming a better person, scared to cut contact because I still care about him but he doesn't understand we're broken up |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Computer science student with low average.. what should I do?
POST: I'm a university student in Canada studying Computer Science. During first year, I did ok, but as time went by my grades started to plummet - (this was due to personal issues I had, which I am still working on). I still ... | I am a university student in canada studying computer science going into fourth year. I have low grades - what should I do after graduation? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Awful smells coming from next door -- what do I do?
POST: I apologize in advance for the long-winded story, but I feel it's necessary to get an idea of what's going on.
I live in a house that shares a wall with the neighbor's house. He's a senior, had two heart attacks already and lives al... | Neighbor's dog and apartment smell so, so bad, it's infiltrating into our apartment and making it impossible to live here. |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: Accutane (Isotretinoin) and Travel
POST: Two days ago, my doctor prescribed Claravis (Canadian brand of Roaccutane) for ongoing mild to moderate acne. I'm a 29 year old caucasian female that weighs 130 lbs. He prescribed 10 mg for 10 days, then 40 mg for 30 days, and possibly working up t... | I would love to hear experiences from individuals who have been on Accutane while living or travelling in a very sunny place. Thank you :) |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [20 M] girlfriend [19,F] of 1,5 years drinks and smokes, and I detest these behaviours
POST: My main ways of spending time are computer games, my cat&dog, studying (I do this a lot, I study for school as well as non-school subjects of interest) and food&water. I can live quite wel... | My girlfriend's understanding of alcohol is binge drinking and her friends promote her smoking - I oppose both of these, wat do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: How to be assertive without being condescending or arrogant?
POST: *Quick details:*
I am a 22yo male in my senior year of college; the woman of interest is 18yo and in her freshman year of college.
*More info:*
Last Friday, I went on a date with an acquaintance that ended very wel... | Had a great first date with a woman, stood up on the second date. Female interest tried contacting me afterward; how do I respond in an assertive manner that allows the possibility of future dates? |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [SC] Bought house two years ago...seller lied on disclosure
POST: So we bought a house almost two years ago; on the sellers disclosure it asks specifically if there is any underground tanks. The seller checked no. It also specifically asks "Any violations of variances of building codes... | Am I possibly screwed that a previous owner didnt disclose an underground propane tank, and am I liable for the illegal additions? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [23/F] want to reconnect with my [23/M] ex, but strictly as friends.
POST: It's been almost 2 years since I talked to my ex.
We met at a party through some mutual friends and hit it off immediately. We lived 40 mins apart (2 different colleges) and saw each other almost ever... | In a strong and happy relationship, but want to become friends with my ex again after not talking to him for 2 years without making my boyfriend mad or giving my ex the wrong idea. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is the most surprising thing you've learnt about yourself from you childhood, when you were drunk, etc.?
POST: I recently learned that when I was 4 years old I was taken to the police station and questioned about sexually abusing my female friend who was also 4. I'm going to stop al... | found out I was questioned by social workers and police for sexually abusing my childhood friend when we were 4. Didn't hear about it until the other day. I'm 20. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it normal that I (21M) feel this way about my girlfriends (21F) situation?
POST: Basically we started seeing each other in February or so and were going to be longish distance most of the time but I was under the impression we would have some of our summer together. I came home fo... | Thought we wouldhave some of our summer together, we don't. Am I bad for feeling jealous/envious/frustrated? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm[20 M] going away for 4 months next year, my GF [17F] of 2 years isn't sure if we can make it work.
POST: So, to start out I get the age difference is a problem, but its something we've been able to get passed, and the way I see, in a few years it shouldn't make the biggest differ... | GF thinks it'll be too hard to make it work and is thinking about breaking up. Not sure what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [16M] like a girl [17F] that likes me back, but we're too shy to do anything about it.
POST: I told a female friend that I had interest in a girl. She then told a friend of the girl. That friend didn't tell the girl in question that I was interested, but she did learn that she had ... | Girl and I have similar feelings for each other, but are too shy to act on them. How do I get something to happen between us that would hopefully lead to a relationship? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I a bad girlfriend/friend?
POST: This weekend my girlfriend had a huge fight with her (former) best friend because he's been nothing but nasty to her lately, in addition to not paying rent for 10 months or making any effort to hold a job. She's 20, I'm 21, he's 22.
Anyway, she t... | Don't like my girlfriend's deadbeat, freeloading, imbecilic best friend. Don't know if I should tell her. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] met someone new [17F] after the relationship of 1.5 years with my ex [18F].
POST: Hello people of reddit.
For 1.5 years I had a relationship with my ex girlfriend, which i really love(d) and had a wonderful time with. The last 3 months were a period of constant fighting and... | Ex and me broke up 1 month ago, a perfect girl appears and I don't know whether i should slowly start something with her or quit dating her |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (21F) scared to go on a date with this guy(21M) because of my panic attacks
POST: A friend of mine recently confessed to liking me and after chasing me for a while, convinced me to go on a date when he came back to school. We decided on the day and didn't talk for a week. In the ... | Had set up a date with a guy but went to the ER because of a panic attack a couple days ago, and now scared to go on the date and starting to shake |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My GF[23] of 2 years who just started her professional career has been hanging out with drug users while I'm very opposed, what do I [24/M] do?
POST: Pretty much the title, she met these group of 6 guys (20y-26years old) at her old job at this health food store a year ago and I... | GF starts her professional career and starts hanging out with a group of drug users that I promised myself to never be around again. |