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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Past Landlord (in MD) lied about my tenancy to future landlord (in CA)-what recourse do I have?
POST: I'm getting ready to move into a place here in CA and the landlord contacted me to say that my past landlord said I was an unsatisfactory tenant. In my discussion with the CA landlord,... | Old landlord told lies about me to new landlord and now new landlord won't rent to me. Anything I can do about old landlord lying? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my girlfriend [18 M] of 6 months, I ended it but want re-assurance.
POST: I had trust issues from previous relationships and my ex-girlfriend would constantly attempt to re-assure me she was different and that she didn't want to do that. She would often go away with he... | Relationship is dead and gone but want re-assurance I made good decision and wasn't a trust-phobe. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My Debate with Rick Santorum, requesting help finding information.
POST: Hello Redditors, first time poster here.
This evening, Rick Santorum came to my school. As it would turn out, I was the actual only current student at my small conservative college in Iowa to get the microphone. Tr... | Anxious, couldn't think straight while being assaulted with questions, would like assistance finding data on all of his remarks. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17M] have recently started seeing another guy called Billy [20M]. It's been a month and I'm very confused about how I feel, should I end it?
POST: Towards the end of this summer, I began talking to a guy on GRINDR and after a few days we decided to meet as he only lived around the... | I've started to see a guy I met online and it's been about a month. He's everything I'd want in a guy but something inside me just doesn't feel right. Should I end it before it gets serious? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [30M] with my girlfriend [30F] never communicated before but now she's seeing someone new we've been more honest and open.
POST: We've been together for 5 years and almost 1 year additional for a break. It ended in resentment and we never explained our feelings openly when it happ... | We had a relationship full of insecurity and resentment but now we're more open, i want her back and I'm sick about it. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me I [25 M] just found out that my Fiance [M] of a year cheated on me. Once, to my knowledge. Am at a loss.
POST: I found out last night that my fiance of a year (In a relationship nearly 4) has cheated on me. He left his facebook open and there was a chat with suspicious content, wh... | If a partner cheats one time, is that it for the relationship and everything you've built? Is there no way forward? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: The girl [19F] I [19M] got pregnant wants to put our baby up for adoption, I disagree and its affecting our relationship
POST: So around four months ago, I hooked up with a girl I met at a party and got her pregnant. She told me about two months after we hooked up, and we came to the... | My baby mama wants to give our kid up for adoption, I disagree and our relationship has become tense. How to fix this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My[19M] girlfriend[18F] is contemplating breaking up with me, what do I do?
POST: We've been together for 8 months now. For the first few months, everything was perfect. We both were very happy and she was the first one to tell me she loved me. Back in February, her and her only real... | How do I get her to remember the good parts of our relationship instead of her focusing on the bad and avoid us breaking up as a result. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My ex [17F] broke up with me [17M]. Quick question.
POST: Backstory: We had a great relationship (lasted 5 months), but unfortunately I was an asshole and I hurt her too many times, and she just can't forgive me anymore. She expressed that she still is deeply in love with me and I ex... | gf broke up with me for being an asshole, I want her back so badly, she wants me to fight for her, and im lost and confused, I have no clue how to proceed. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20F] can't stand my father [M58]
POST: I don't think it's healthy that just the sight of my dad makes me angry and my whole demeanor changes. I think I might actually hate him.
Deep down I know he's tried his best to be an ok dad, but he's made my life hell. He's an alcoholic wit... | deeply resent my dad, scared I'm becoming like him and don't know how to make the situation better for everyone... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My ex [20 F] broke up with me[20 M] almost 2 years into the relationship. She now has a boyfriend two months later.
POST: Backstory: She was my first GF. We started dating in May 2013, got into a relationship in July. A year into our relationship I found out she was still talking to ... | Ex broke up with me, continues to contact me. Feel like I was led on because she has a BF. Told her to stop and she continues to do so. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: Anyone else out there think birth pain is over estimated? I didnt think it was that bad am I nuts?
POST: So ive done two natural births with 2 8lb healthy babies and I was expecting the worst but over all it was just really uncomfortable. I even had bad tearing but didnt realize until th... | I completely respect every birth experience out there! Thank you for the helping of humble and the fresh perspective. I really just didn't know. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20M] have developed feelings with someone [20F] only a month after my first breakup.
POST: When the girl that I loved most dearly decided that she no longer loves and then broke up with me... I was utterly devastated but what can I do?
Anyway, during those weeks of sadness and gr... | Girlfriend broke up with me and then roughly 1 month later I have started developing feelings for another girl I have grown close to - advice needed! |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by finding the lost Key for our Server-Room at work
POST: (I'm no english native speaker)
This happened about 2 Minutes ago.
I wanted to change the hard drive like every day to keep our data secure. But as I was trying to enter the room where we keep our Server the Key of the door wasn... | Key of a door at work was lost. I told everyone in the office to find the idiot that took it. I was the Idiot... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [F21] (ex) boyfriend [M21] tried to kill himself after I broke up with him. Should I go see him in the hospital? What do I do?
POST: We have been together for almost 2 years. Over the past few weeks he has been bringing up the topic of marriage. During the course of our relationsh... | I broke up with him 4 days ago. He's been in a medically induced coma ever since. He's coming out of it today. Should I go see him? What do I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: She is frustrated because he makes promises and never keeps them. He is frustrated because he feels she is too pushy. [26F, 24M, 5 yrs together]
POST: We're very different people. We come from really different cultures. We're at a breaking point, and I want to see if this is salvagea... | We're very different people. We come from really different cultures. We're at a breaking point, and I want to see if this is salvageable. He never keeps his promises to me and I need advice. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend (M21) has become distant due to work
POST: When my current boyfriend ( M21) and I (F20) began dating (8months ago) we spent a lot of time together. He would drive 20-30 min to see me everyday because I do not have a car at the moment and everything was perfect.
Now in the p... | I am resented because my boyfriend has become distant due to work and I am not sure if I deserve better or I am just being selfish? |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Feels great
POST: today i was at the gym working legs and shoulders and i see two guys threw the corner of my eye making fun of me (my love handles and wide feet) i start getting insecure about myself and am contemplating leaving as im almost done or confronting them. im a big guy but im st... | at gym guys making fun of me for being fat go up to their rack as they were benching ask to join in show them up like crazy walk away feeling great (: |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16M] my junior prom plans went up in flames, i thought I was doing the best I can with the hand I was dealt, but my friends basically mocked me for trying
POST: Hi Reddit, so I just need a outside perspective. I should be sleeping but I am sick as a dog at the moment, coughing an... | My prom plans went up in flames, my friends basically made fun of me for making the best of a shitty situation. Is going to the circus and movies on prom night sad like they claim? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Running into a situation with my lady... Looking for a little guidance...
POST: Hello Denizens of Reddit!
I have been a long time lurker and this would be my first post. I have a predicament and I just need to vent it out and see how others may view the situation. I am engaged to a love... | My fiancee is flying to see an old friend before he leaves for Afghanistan and wants to sleep in the same bed with him... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [23M] Gf [23f] just moved into her own place and her ex is helping her with floors and just bought her a cat. Should I be ok with this?
POST: Hey guys (and gals), this is a throwaway because I'm slightly (possibly more) paranoid.
I've been dating this girl for 6 months, and ever... | Gf and I having trouble, her ex doing favours for her, I don't know how to feel about this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: My dog won't eat...
POST: So... apparently I have the most picky dog in the world, that or I'm a jerk owner, not sure which. (also keep in mind, this is the most submissive dog in the world) So, I used to keep dog food out in a bowl all throughout the day and let him eat whenever he wanted t... | My dog will eat for about 2 weeks, then stop eating for days until I switch brands of dog food. How the hell do I keep him eating? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by revealing two of my sons Christmas Presents early.
POST: So this was from a couple days ago, but we need some backstory before we go into the actual FU.
So my son is a huge gamer, he's 14, and goes on about how we wanted a gameboy color for christmas so he could play the original Pok... | I revealed a T-Shirt for my son on ebay and gave him a package from ebay thinking it was said T-shirt. Turns out to be the gameboy color that I had ordered for him. FML |
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining
TITLE: Dog keeps licking other dogs privates.
POST: Hey!
So real quick I adopted a un-neutered 3 year old Lab last year. We lived on our own for a almost a year together than I moved back to my parents house although. They only live here during the summers and holidays. At first my parents ... | my dog lived with my parents dog for a few months weren't best Friends. A few months more go by and now he's always trying to lick his junk. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How far do you draw the line of being honest?
POST: This is mainly posted because of something that came up as a teacher that I can see happening again - but I'd also like to hear your experiences, and of course, I'd really appreciate some advice
I cut myself on and off for about ten ye... | should I be honest with my pupils if they ask about my self harm scars? And have you been in a situation where you've had to bring your own honesty into question? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M/F] with my ___ [25 M/F] 4.5 yrs, we have talked about marriage, but I dont feel ready for marriage yet.
POST: Hi r/relationships
I have been dating this wonderful person for nearly 5 years. We rarely fight, when we do we always find a way to make up. They are beautiful, i... | not being pressured into getting married, but feeling bad for not proposing after almost 5 years. Are my insecurities about getting married valid? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: I'm (25f) scared to leave my daughter (2mof) alone with my mums bf (40+m)
POST: Since being pregnant and after having my daughter, I've started to get anxious about the idea of my mums partner being left alone with her when they are babysitting. He is difficult to describe as a person, b... | Mums BF tried to take photos of my teenage sister and now I'm scare of leaving my daughter alone with him, but I don't want to stop my mum from looking after her granddaughter |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, have you had a phase were you acted not like a complete different person?
POST: I am normally a pretty shy guy, but a couple of years ago I decided to go to a major festival in my country. Besides our supply we went to a discount and bought crappy stuff you might have fun with at... | Got drunk at a festival 3 days in a row wearing fairy wings 24/7 and getting my skin covered with drawings. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [16M] have a huge chrush on my best friend for 6 months [16F] and now shes too close to my exgirlfriend.
POST: We have been friends for over 3 years and she was one of the few reasons I broke up with my previous girlfriend. I really liked her and I really fucked up by sending her t... | I am falling head over heals for my best friend who I sent to go help my ex girlfriend get over me. Now shes to close to my ex and I dont know what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: There is this girl [17] and I [17] told her that I like her, after I was really sure that she does, too...
POST: Having heard lots of naughty comments for me from her best friends, them telling me to "kiss the girl -I like- so that she shuts up" and many more, like, everytime I'm out... | I told a girl, who I thought like me, that I really like her and now she doesn't talk to me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Life is full tension living with fiancé AND grandma AND mom
POST: So a few months ago my fiancé (f 23), my grandmother, (83) mother (53) and me (m 22) moved to Florida together from the Northeast. Things start out good, but after we all get used to each other, things start to get ten... | Living with my fiancé, grandma, and mom is great but very stressful when they don't get along. Many times both are in the wrong. Its driving me totally insane |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Old apartment complex is holding my mail, didn't notify me or return to post office. (Florida)
POST: Today, I found out some of my mail and packages have been being sent to my old apartment. There are at least two known packages that were shipped to the old address, with a total worth... | Old apartment complex is accepting all my mail and neither forwarding it or returning to th post office. How do I get it back, and is what legal reprecussions could they face? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 F] with my roommate [26 M] of 2 months, who acts abusive towards his girlfriend [25F] but bizarrely nice to me?
POST: Hi Reddit, this is a throwaway because I would hate to be on the wrong side of the people I'm posting about.
My roommate 26M moved in 2 months ago. His girlfr... | My roommate is abusive to his gf but has always been nothing but nice to me. Is there anything I can/should do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: A strange situation involving LinkedIn
POST: Okay, so this story requires a bit of background. When I moved to my current location, I applied for lots of jobs. I didn't hear anything back from anything for awhile, and then I got a bunch of interviews and a job offer. I took the first offer I ... | Interested in a job, someone at the same company randomly added me on LinkedIn. Do I use that connection or just apply normally? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Concerns from [F23] on beginning a relationship with difference of beliefs with [M23].
POST: So for the past few months, I've been sleeping with a friend of mine. We met as kids and kept in touch over the years. Recently we both moved and ended up living 15 minutes away from each oth... | Developing feelings for my FWB, who I know feels the same way. Concerned that his religious beliefs would cause too much friction. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 M] was just told by my [17 F] girlfriend of two months, that before me, she had unprotected sex twice. She told me she was a virgin.
POST: This shit may get long so hang tight.
My girlfriend of two months had told me just before we had started dating that she was a virgin and... | My girlfriend lied to my face about being a virgin and she had unprotected sex with two different guys, now I am conflicted. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [20/f] and my bf [22/m] said something a few weeks ago that's still kind of bugging me (maybe I'm overreacting?)
POST: We've been dating just over a year.
A few weeks ago we were talking about chicks that are strippers so they can pay for college. I'm about to start pharmacy s... | boyfriend said he wouldn't care if I became a stripper even though he knows it's something I would regret...will this apparent lack of concern be an issue later on in our relationship? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend would prefer an open relationship, I'm not interested.
POST: Ok. So recently it came to my attention that my (21F) boyfriend (21M) would prefer to have an open relationship. We've been dating about 3 1/2 years. I was a virgin when we got together, he was not. We waited 8 mo... | Boyfriend wants an open relationship but says he's fine with not having one. I am sort of hurt that he wants other people. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Question from a Washington Post reporter: what is the media missing about Reddit?
POST: So: full confession, I'm really nervous to post this. It's much safer lurking. But at some point, I gotta make the leap from longtime lurker to actual participant. So, hi Reddit! I'm writing about the... | I am writing a column about Reddit because I love it and stalk it like an ex-boyfriend named Craig who *now* decides that he's ready for a little commitment. Tell me what the media doesn't get about you. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My bf [23/M] of 1 year has his dream job in CA. I [21/F] just got offered a dream job in MD. Help?!
POST: By dream job, I mean that I'll have a great starting salary, be part of a leading name in my field doing really exciting research that I love and have a passion for, and have acc... | Got offered a dream job that's 2k+ miles away from my boyfriend's current dream job. Does anyone have experience with/insight in navigating decisions like this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17 M] am having trouble trying to get to talk to this girl [17 F] that I would like to get to know before H.S graduation
POST: It is the 2nd quarter of my senior year of high school for me, and I've developed this massive crush on a girl (single). I have had crushes before, but ne... | What can I do to build a relationship with a girl I like, given me being slightly introverted and her not really knowing me well. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by fucking up my cover letter for graduate application
POST: This actually happened last weekend but i didn't realise until today when I was going through my stuff...
So last week I was applying for a business/commerce graduate job that required a cover letter along with academic transc... | didn't proof read properly for grad application cover letter, hate myself and possibly be fucked once i am graduated from uni |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU paid on my credit card bill wrongly and now am down over 3k and leaving on a holiday in 4 hours time.
POST: My main bank account which my pay check gets paid into has a wonderful feature where you can save people you constantly pay to.
So i have saved 3 banks for my 3 credit card bills
... | I paid to the wrong credit card and my bank account has taken a big hit, while i have to head for a holiday with low funds in my bank account. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend [21M] of 1 year is convinced my nephew [5M] is sexually attracted to me [20F]. Should I end things?
POST: So this came yesterday out of the blue.
He was over at my parent's house with me and my sister and nephew for dinner. After dinner we were watching TV and my nephew ca... | Boyfriend believes my 5 year old nephew is sexually attracted to me and wants me to stop playing with him. Should I end things? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: She [20/f] went from feeling we had something special, to just wanting to be my [23/m] friend, in a day. What happend?
POST: I [23/m] asked out a girl [20/f] in my class. I'd been interested in her for a while, and I kind of felt she felt the same way about me. So, she said yes... | Girl I went out with went from saying she wanted to be with me, to wanting to be independent and not thinking a long-distance relationship for four months would work. What happend? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21/F] stopped taking medication and am no longer interested in sex with [27/M] BF (2 years)
POST: I have been on different anti-depressant medications since I was 13. It definitely was necessary as a teenager, but I feel like I should try living without it now that I've passed thr... | I have no sex-drive after stopping taking anti-depressants, and I'm afraid my boyfriend won't love me anymore |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My friend (24m) has repeatedly told me that he is in love with me. I (22f) don't quite know how I feel
POST: My friend and I are really close, we've known each other for four years, lived together for three months last summer. He currently lives in his hometown 300 miles away because... | Friend told me he is in love with me. Part of me wants to return his feelings, the other just wants to continue being single. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 F] with my partner [49 M] 3+yrs bought a house together, living together 2+ yrs, we're really happy, thinking of a silly modern day relationship proposal without legally getting married
POST: I don't have really any relationship complaints to voice here, there are challenges, ... | Feeling unsure about surprising my partner with a symbolic mock marriage during our vacation. If he reacts negatively or confused of my motives then it could put a hamper to the good times. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: I'm about to sublet an apartment off Craigslist sight unseen, and I don't want to get burned. Advice?
POST: Hi everyone! I'm new to personal finance, but I've seen some great stuff on here, so I'm hoping you can help me out.
I'm moving out to New York this summer for a two month ... | I've found what looks like a great apartment on Craigslist, and everything seems to check out, but I want to make sure I don't get burned. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Nice To Meet You: What're your 'greatest moments'?
POST: Anyway, what're *your* greatest moments when it comes to meeting someone new?
Here's mine.
So, not too long ago, I was with some friends. We were alone in a pretty big house, so we did what any sensible group of upstanding citize... | Met someone, creeped on them, and wrote their name on myself in pen over the course of one evening. And I'll be seeing more of them. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My ex-wife keeps visiting my personal blog. I need some brilliant prank ideas.
POST: My ex-wife and I went splitsville in 2009, and it wasn't very civil. She really hates me, and it kind of feels good. We got married really quickly and I knew even during the ceremony of our wedding that ... | Ex-wife hates me, visits blog I barely update 2x a week. Let's prank her, need ideas. |
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining
TITLE: My dog snapped and aggressively barks at only one person
POST: I have an 1.5 year old Irish Water Spaniel (the breed tends to be wary of strangers and can be protective of their owners) but other than being shy at first, she's never snapped at anyone. It takes a couple visits for her t... | My 1.5 puppy is very aggressive to only one person (who I know has not done anything to her in the past). Not sure what to do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I being reasonable, or trying to have my cake and eat it too?
POST: Hey reddit, I will try to be concise.
I've been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend since junior year of high school, basically. We are now going into our second year of college. Despite apprehension on... | Boyfriend from high school, going into our second year of college. Studying at opposite ends of the states. I want to say to him: |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Debt collector called, panicked and hung up phone
POST: Hey PF,
Yesterday a debt collector called and was quickly asking to confirm my address after barely giving his name. I asked him who he was calling on behalf and he said some debt collection service. At this point the conversa... | Debt collector called and I panicked and ended the call. After searching online a bit, I need more direction on what steps to take next to get this situation resolved. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How do I deal with rejection after 4 years?
POST: We were high school sweethearts; dated from age 17 to 21. We had our share of trials (abortion, my friends didn't like her, ultra-religious parents) but we loved each other very, very much. Or so I thought; she left me 3 months ... | Lady left me after 4 years, quickly began dating again, I feel like shite, would like to know if I should just move on or continue chasing windmills |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [24/m] I'm very inexperienced and looking at going on a date with a fellow expat. Could use some advice and some opinions?
POST: Hello!
I'm an American living in another country and I've made plans to hang out with a South African girl I met a few months back. We're both in co... | I guess I'm mostly just looking for advice on how to go about dating somebody as an inexperienced virgin. Who doesn't know where he'll be in six months. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My [18/f] gf is very unaffectionate & I cant stand it. But their actually may be a hormonal issue to explain it....
POST: 18/m been dating for a little over 2 months. Shes my first gf.
Ive talked about this issue with her and she is admittedly naturally an unaffectionate unem... | Gf only gets her period couple times a year which may explain lack of effection and emotion because of low levels of estrogen. How do I deal with naturally unaffectionate gf and create an intimate relationship? |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: struggling to deal with former relationship and I hate myself for it
POST: I've been seeing my current girlfriend for 6 months now, and I'm really worried that emotions pertaining to my ex may pop up.
To put things in perspective, up until recently I have had a bit of a hero complex whe... | I'm still thinking about my fucked up ex and I'm scared it's going to ruin my current relationship, as well as cause me to slide back. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29M] with my GF [24F] of 1 year, She is sweet and beautiful but I don't feel feel intellectually challenged at all: Should We breakup?
POST: I have been seeing Amy (made up) for just over a year, she is most great. Eg. nice, attractive, sexual, complements my weaknesses nicely (e... | My otherwise great GF of 1 year is very ignorant of the world and is near impossible to have a rational debate with regarding anything beyond very simple things. I don't know if I should stay or leave. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (18m) am scared to death of my soon-to-be LDR with my Girlfriend (18f) and could really use some advice.
POST: My girlfriend is going to be leaving for college in about 1 weeks time. I am absolutely terrified because I've been with her for almost 4 years, and I love her more than I... | S.O and I are about to start a L.D.R and I am wholly unprepared and terrified about it. Some advice to help keep things going smoothly would really ease my mind. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [15 M] deal with my mom [37 F]?
POST: First post here. Sorry if I do something wrong but here is what I have to say.
My mom is always going somewhere with one of her friends that is just a negative person to the rest of my family (my dad [40 M] and sister [9 F]). My sister ... | Mom is always with her friend and doesn't want to do anything with her children (me and my sister). What can/should I do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] with my SO [19 F] recently started dating, I can't keep it up and it's becoming a problem :/
POST: Hi r/relationship, ThROWAWAYBONERPROBS here. So, to be blunt, I cannot for the life of me keep my boner while we're having sex. I've been with many girls in the past and this ... | Can't keep my love shaft up. Need advice for my lack of a sex drive and communicating with my SO about my ED problem. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, is there a way we can reduce the amount of duplicate commenting and induce upvoting instead?
POST: Hey Reddit! To put my question briefly, when someone asks a question in a post, what is the best way to try to encourage redditors to make sure to upvote someone who has the same su... | Reddit is an awesome tool for aggregation if we use it the way it's engineered to be used and not as a place to read what we type. Stay classy, Reddit! |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Was my (18 F) boyfriend (18 M) out of line when he invited his girl friend out over me several times?
POST: So, I recently split with my boyfriend (18 M) over him leaving for college and not enough time on either side to make LDR work. We were together from last November to July, and... | Ex boyfriend used to hang out with girl all the time, take her out to family events, didn't get when I had issues with it. Was I wrong for being upset?? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I[22F] know if my boyfriend[26/M] of 1.5 years is "the one"
POST: My bf and I have been together about a year and a half, and I spent most of that time being head-over-heels in love with him. I saw myself marrying him, thought we were oh-so perfect, etc.
I was fortunate enoug... | My bf and I have been together 1.5 years. I love him very much but I'm wondering if I could have a better "love story" with someone else and not just a regular ol relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Money will always control my life.
POST: I feel like money will always control my life and I will never actually get to live one.
Up to the age of 18, I lived with my parents. We've always been poor, which I didn't question. Though I don't understand what happened because there was a t... | Growing up in poverty, living in poverty as a student and unemployed graduate, then paying off loans for 10 years whilst not saving, then needing to take care of my parents even more. This will be my whole life. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Today I gave up my unlimited data plan with Verizon so my Dad could upgrade to a smartphone since we are on a shared account. What tips/tricks do you have for cutting down on data usage?
POST: I am now mostly concerned with ways to cut down on my data usage so that we can stick with the ... | I no longer have unlimited data and am looking for tips to save on my data usage, particularly for gps navigation since I am moving to a new city.* |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by wearing the wrong underwear
POST: So this fuck up happened some time ago when i was visiting the doctor because of my knee problems. They pretty much hurt since I am 16, caused by me growing too fast. Now, Im almost 22 years old and once again i made my way to the orthopaedist`s offic... | Went to the orthopaedist, exposed my balls when the secretary came in and had two people staring at them dead silent |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [31M] and wife [28F] She told me she didn't know if she could love our child if it was disabled. I feel differently about her now.
POST: We have been together for 8 years, married for 2.
We're not pregnant, but we were having a deep late night conversation and the topic of future... | My wife is afraid of having a disabled child and says she will not love it. Her words seem cruel to me. Please lend some perspective on how to approach this? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [22F] 2-years, have struggled dealing with conflict and are constantly in a fight or flight state of mind with each other.
POST: Since we started dating, there has always been a sort of tension between us because of our standards for each other. She wante... | We argue a lot and are nervous that everything we say will turn into a verbal fight. I need advice on how to get better so we can relax. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [Update] Me [22M] with my Girlfriend [21F] of 2 years, and she is cheating on me as I type this
POST: A few of you guys have been asking for an update on this so here goes. The original post can he found [here](
I've been avoiding posting just because as you guessed, we broke up. I ... | my now Ex girlfriend is a bitch, and I'm done. Ill move on, it sucks and it hurts, but I guess part of life is dealing with this kind of stuff. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27M] have been married for 1 year , together for 8 and am having doubts that she will ever want to do more than be a SAHW [27F]
POST: We met when we were 19 , she came from a family that (IMO) really distorted her world view and stunted her growth in alot of aspects (very insecur... | Stay at home wife shows no signs of wanting to do anything with her life , holds onto dead business . Sole breadwinner (me) is freaking out after 1st year of marriage |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by mixing feelings.
POST: Some background: broke up with my ex early this year, we're still best friends, we're living together, he's been dating someone else for two months, we all get along great.
Just for the record, I don't love him anymore and I'm completely over him, but lately I'... | I tried to kiss my best friend, who is also my ex, because I miss our relationship. Now I don't know how to get over any possible awkwardness. |
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated
TITLE: I'm going to have a talk with my parents tomorrow. Enough is enough.
POST: I am a 21 year old female, in a family of four. I am the eldest, my younger brother is 14.
I have as of late, been charged with paying my car registration and licensing, and paying for a new phone and plan... | I'm finally going to confront my parents on several control issues. I'm 21F, eldest of two kids, bro is 14. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: what are the chances that someone smoking at a gas station actually starts a fire?
POST: Background:
I was at an Arco station and noticed the guy at the pump in front of me stepped out of his car while smoking and walked past two pumps to go inside the convenience store. He put out hi... | will smoking cigarettes at a gas station make go boom or owner too afraid of the one time it does. also, cell phones on planes, what's the deal? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (17 m) told by (16 f) that she misses how we used to be and that she regrets us not happening, even though she has a boyfriend.
POST: Okay so, I like this girl a lot, and we've been friends for a year, with casual stuff going on every now and then, at times we were pretty much in a r... | girl who I like gets boyfriend, I tell her I like her, she tells me she likes me too, and she regrets not being with me. But still has a boyfriend. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me with my boyfriend (25 M/F) of 2 years are moving in together. What kinds of things should we expect and what is your advice?
POST: Hi /r/Relationships! I'm a longtime lurker, using a throwaway.
My boyfriend and I are finally moving in together after 2 years of a somewhat LDR, and... | BF and I are moving in together. We are very happy together and want to know what we should expect/what advice /r/relationships might have for us. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend [18 F of 2 years] pretended to be broken up with Me [18 M] to get out of answering what was up
POST: Me and her both work at the same shop, and she gets really pissed off by the place. Like, it took 2 months for them to give her a regular shift, and even then gave her t... | Did I overreact when my GF pretended we'd broken up for the night to get out of answering more repetitive questions? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I am hurting and I don't know why
POST: Currently on LDR, 288 miles but we see each other every weekend. My(32/F) SO(35/M) recently went back biking with a group of cyclists- the group he left when he broke up with his ex about a year ago. The group meets twice a week to bike f... | SO is seeing his ex more regularly in this group activity. I don't understand why it hurts despite my confidence in my relationship and his reassurance. |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: I am trying to raise money for the Make a Wish Nebraska Foundation...about half way to my goal.
POST: I am a small business owner, specifically a comic/coffee shop and I thought it would be fun to raise money for a local charity to celebrate moving to our new location. So, I contacted Make a... | Comic store is selling tickets to win expensive comic, all money raised goes to Make a Wish Nebraska, could use donations or help spreading the word, drawing is on May 5th. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Federal Student Loans & Maximizing PAYE Debt Forgiveness
POST: My husband and I both have/will have graduate degrees paid for almost entirely by loans. (He's an attorney, I'm an incoming 1L nontraditional student). Upon graduation, I expect we'll have about $180,000 in combined stu... | Should we pay more than PAYE to get rid of student loans ASAP, or pay the minimum and have it forgiven? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (25/F) extremely insecure about my naked body and am terrified of getting intimate with a potential boyfriend (27/M) I'm meeting soon.
POST: So, in the next month I'll be meeting a guy I've known online for about 2 years for the first time in person. We've chatted plenty online, ... | I'm inexperienced, and insecure about my body naked. I could be getting more intimate with a guy soon and wonder if I should warn him ahead of time how my body is? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [25M] GF [27F] of 3 years is unwilling to be mutually open about our lives and it feels so wrong
POST: So ill try and keep this short and sweet. We've been together for three years, weve been through a lot together and we know a lot about each other. A problem ive had since the be... | GF only talks about her private life at her unprompted discression and gets mad at me when I ask her questins about her life outside of me. I want to know how to address this with her |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Financially imbalanced relationship between me [19F] and the guy I'm dating [22M] [3 months duration]
POST: I've been dating Kyle for about 3 months now. We have been keeping it very casual. We haven't really defined the relationship and we certainly don't refer to each other as boyf... | Guy I'm dating doesn't have much money. I want to get him an expensive present but don't want to make him uncomfortable or make myself look bad. Should I just get him a cheaper gift? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (28M) fiancee (24F) contemplating out of state grad school
POST: I'm extremely bummed out and I know I shouldn't be. After putting in a ton of work applying to 20 different PA schools all over the country, my fiancee is starting to get interviews. Now I've kept this to myself up ... | Fiancee contemplating out-of-state schools. To be married within month, school starts 4 months after that. I don't want her to go. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Please help: auto loan cancellation
POST: Here's my story:
Two months ago, I submitted an application for an auto loan through my credit union. I did not have a specific car picked out, but I wanted to be sure of my options before I wasted my time shopping. After providing documen... | Got pre-approved for a loan, didn't want it anymore, now my credit suffers because I "canceled". |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: People always complain about either the current or the younger generation. Today I had an experience I'm not sure what to think of.
POST: I'm probably over-analyzing this.
I walked into the library, and a lady who looked in her 70s was ahead of me. She opened the door, looked at me, then let... | Elderly woman did not hold open the door for me. Later, a little boy held the door open for me. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is there a way to rebuild trust in this twisted relationship?
POST: 26F and a 29M. I thought about cheating, but then I felt guilty. I used a hidden messenger and other online apps on my phone. I was living with my boyfriend of 4 months. I felt guilty again and blew the guy off.
Th... | Fucked up relationship due to fucked up circumstances. We want to try to mend things and better ourselves, but aren't sure how. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my _ex_ [20 F] of over 2 years, broke up almost a month ago. I think I fucked up...
POST: Just under a month ago I had broken up with my girlfriend after a rocky period in our relationship, but now I'm feeling immense remorse and sadness. I don't exactly know why this ... | I broke up with my loving gf; she seems not to care or think anything of me 1 month out, but we meet tomorrow. Wat should i do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Bachelors Degree- Go to a Small, No-Name College for Free or Take ~$40k in Loans?
POST: So I am in a position where a school with zero reputation gave me a large scholarship, to the point where I only need to pay for housing. This was all well and good until I starting thinking abo... | College A, Shitty but Free, or College B, Nice but Expensive, on the condition that I will be continuing my education immediately after getting a Bachelors. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend [32F] is still close to her ex [26M] and it is very hard for me [22M] to deal with
POST: We have been dating for just over 3 years now, and from day one her ex has been in her life. I'm normally not a jealous person and she's free to talk to whoever she wants, but her e... | my girlfriend is still very close to her ex and it upsets me, how can I discuss this with her without being an asshole? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Co-worker [18 F] gave her phone number to me [16 M] but she has a boyfriend
POST: I started working at a grocery store about a month ago and the co-worker mentioned and I have been flirting with each other since then. About a week I found out she has a boyfriend but she still has bee... | co-worker has been flirting with me since we started working together and said I was cute and gave me her number but she has a boyfriend |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Inyo county, California, speeding ticket
POST: I am feeling pretty desperate. Last night around 10 pm I was pulled over for going 87 in a 65 (on a highway. A long, boring, scary highway). I know I was going faster than the speed limit, but I don't believe it was 87. I didn't have my in... | i need to contest a portion of this ticket. Can't afford to go 400 miles there and back to do so. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20F] want to resolve my jealousy issues but am not sure where to start.. Advice?
POST: So I feel like a lot of posts on here are about dealing with a jealous SO, but I haven't found many experiences from the jealous person's side.. Was just looking for some clarity and maybe simil... | Has anyone figured out a tactic to deal with jealousy/irrational fears in a relationship? Looking to free myself from this unnecessary negative emotion. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I cant tell if my SO cheated on me or not..
POST: I will try to keep this as simple as possible
I (23 M) just ended a one year relationship with my SO (20F). I had no idea that our relationship was in jepordy until she dropped the bombshell on Friday that she had been basically flir... | GF has a change of heart, doesn't tell me. She gets drunk and messes around with other guys before we officially end it. I'm not 100% innocent either. Is it my fault? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [23/F] My SO [24/M]'s father(60s/M) has asked us over for dinner in what could easily turn into an intervention for the boyfriend's mother(50s/F). Where is my place in this?
POST: My boyfriend's mother had a terrible narcotic's addiction around 15yrs ago. She has since gotten h... | SO's father is forcing his mother into inpatient narcotics therapy even though she has hold of her addiction. Where is my place, is it okay to not support it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25F] with my Cousin [26F], Uncomfortable with keeping her secret.
POST: Alright so throw away for reasons. Basically I live with my cousin, her fiancé and their 2 kids. She was caught by her fiancee texting inappropriate things to her new male co worker of a week. Not just sexual... | Cousin is going behind fiancees back to talk and do stuff with a coworker, I know all about it and I don't want to know anymore. Thinking about ratting out cousin to her fiancé, thoughts? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] with my ex-friend [21F] from childhood-high school recently went through a really hard time and I'm not sure if I should reach out.
POST: I'm going to try to keep this short. I've posted about this friend a few times during our final "break up" of sorts but on different thro... | Best friend I haven't spoken to in close to a year had an abortion and seems to be dealing with depression. Do I offer my support/can I offer support and love without rekindling a friendship? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 M] with my GF [21 F] 4 year relationship...Broke up 6 days ago, just need some help.
POST: Hey,
My girlfriend dumped me on Tuesday and I just find myself thinking of her 24/7....Im just beating myself up and know I am going to go into some serious depression....she was my li... | Broke up 6 days ago. Think about my X 24/7. What can I do to stop thinking about her and move on. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M] with my ex [23 F] 8 months. she broke up because of jealousy to female friends.
POST: In our relationship we met regularly at least two days a week. After a short time she did not want to come up with when I was celebrating with friends from uni. I thought everything is ok ... | Harmonious relationship ruined because of jealousy and poor communication (no arguments). / How to behave when I want to get her back? And if not how to build a friendship. |